I mean, I'm a horn dog. I wanna do it ALLLLL the time. I can't comprehend NOT having sex even after a long days work! Who else thinks that men who can't pleasure their wives are pathetic? I seriously expected to see more men on here complaining that their wives won't give it up but yet, I see the quite the opposite...maybe it's cuz im puerto rican...
2006-09-28 07:56:29 · 18 answers · asked by Rivrav 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree wholeheartedly with SETI's answer on this one. I too have a low sex drive - my husband is fine with it; doesn't complain, and he's not upset if it doesn't happen. Marriage goes so beyond sex - people are tricked into believing they must have sex 3 times a day or something is wrong. What they don't realize is that it's perfectly OK to truly love each other and talk, cuddle, watch TV together, do things as a couple - and not rely solely on sex all the time every which way. The couples who make it are the ones whose love goes beyond any such sexual need - which means they have true love for each other, maturity, and mutual respect.
2006-09-28 09:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's "pathetic" if a man has a low sex drive, cuz I do too. Most men have a huge sex drive compared to mine, and 'd always had to "put out" whether I wanted to or not - cuz most guys do seem to want it all the time. Then I met my husband... We do all kinds of stuff together, we talk a lot, we always go to bed together, we're very close. But his sex drive is just not that high, so we end up having sex about once a month, and are both happy with it. He feels, and I agree, that there are so many other things to do besides having sex or thinking about sex all the time.
What I do think is a bit pathetic is for someone to marry a person knowing that they cannot satisfy you, and then complain about it and demand that they change.
2006-09-28 08:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked a question kinda like this but I asked why do woman not give up sex that much. I always hear guys say they don't get enough. I was thinking there was a reason for woman not having sex with their man. I have the same problem I want sex a lot more than I get it. I have been told that sometimes men work so much that they just aren't in the mood. My husband works about 60-65 hours a week. I kinda understand. I guess everyone is different. I have only had this problem of not enough sex since he started this job.
2006-09-28 08:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is really hard to pass judgement on someone's relationship without knowing both sides. She may be having an affair that he might suspect or he may be secretly gay. There may be problems with the kids or in laws or work; you just don't know why. Believe me when I tell you this. You being Puerto Rican has nothing to do with being a , "horn dog " . Any heterosexual male with a pecker thinks about doing IT all the time. I was even in the mood when I had the flu. What you are trying to figure out in someone's relationship can't be done unless it's your own.
2006-09-28 08:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by ray ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, bud, you don't give your age, your marital status, if you have kids, what kind of work you do, your health status, your extended family info ---- all are things that come into play with the aforementioned situation. Things change after one gets married - sometimes for no one's fault. I won't go into personal details here, but as a man you should know that your mojo doesn't stay the same, as you age, your testosterone goes down. Unexpectedly, health complications compromise your sexuality - you would be thoroughly amazed the things some men unexpectedly have to go through - and their spouses, right along with them.
Sorry for ranting, but your answer just shows your immaturity. The only reason it seems to come up more is that more women are dealing with lots of things with their husbands and are seeking advice, instead of hiding and keeping it quiet. That is healthy. So, enjoy things as long as you can - hope it lasts forever!
2006-09-28 09:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im 15 and that i had my daughter even as i develop into 13. She is my delight and entertainment. Im nevertheless in intense schooll and its confusing yet I truly ought to do whats perfect for her.The dad isn't in the image in any respect. he's scum. From listening to this component to my tale you would possibly want to imagine i did not use a condom or some thing to be threat-free. properly guess what i develop into raped through a guy that develop right into a senior in highschool. i develop into in simple terms in the eighth grade. So in simple terms reason you listen those memories on right here doesnt recommend you've the full truth so quit judgeing. It makes me so mad even as anybody its all there whores they ought to were threat-free or there to youthful for sex you do not continually have that option human beings. definite some females are stupid and they dont imagine obviously yet its no longer all of them so in simple terms quit with it already. Then the moms and dads ask your self how this happend seem who raised us. once you enable your little ones boyfriend stay the nighttime some thing is finally gonna ensue. So there are extra human beings in this equation then the pregnant youngster and the daddy of the toddler. in simple terms provide them a destroy its gonna be confusing adequate as is without anybody judging them there scared and dont understand what to exspect.
2016-12-06 08:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when you find out the answer, i would love to know..i don't think being puerto rican has anything to do with it. it's not so much as they can't please their wives, it is just that they stop trying..why ? I don't know. maybe boredom..maybe he's cheating in her and getting it somewhere else...mayeb resentments built up over the years and this is how he expresses it or gets back at her. I don't think it is all medical..there are a lot of reasons.
2006-09-28 08:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by misfit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 35 weeks pregnant and I have to beg for sex and then I get up and do the work when I am done he gets up and goes into the other room, I don't want to cuddle or snuggle, but he could pretend to enjoy it. Sex is no longer a hobby it is a job!! I know my belly is big, but he could hit it from the back, sex is how I got this way!!
2006-09-28 08:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer Dalpe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it interesting that men complain about not getting enough sex, but at the same time many men aren't even pleasing their wives?
Some men have no interest at all. They are lacking the level of hormones necessary to stimulate the male sex drive. You see so many commercials for men with sexual problems that you would expect to see drugs for hormonal disorders, too.
A lot of women really do enjoy sex. The expect their men to be able to perform for them. It's not asking too much for you to expect your husband to be able to please you.
2006-09-28 08:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The better question is how do we change our husbands and get them to want it more often? It can make a person feel very unloved and unattractive...anyone have an answer to this?
Oh and it is not only the unattractive woman this happens to...many of us still look great and have other options, we just choose to be faithful.
2006-09-28 08:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋