what can a wife do to spark the relationship when she feels her husband has lost interest in the marriage?
Please, no sarcastic or icky remarks.
2006-09-28 08:12:32 · 26 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get naked and surprise him
2006-09-28 08:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by hill bill y 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends how often he refuses your request verbal or otherwise. If it is occasionally let it go do not make big fuss about it. If it happens most of the time, but if luck interest is persistent, I think that he maybe affected by a conditions known as Inhibited sexual desire (ISD). The person with ISD fails to initiate or respond to their partner's desire for sexual activity.
Sometimes, rather than being inhibited, there may simply be a discrepancy in sexual interest levels between two partners, both of whom have interest levels within the normal range.
Occasionally, someone may claim that his or her partner has ISD, when in fact they, them self, have hyperactive sexual desire and are very demanding sexually.
ISD is a very common sexual disorder. The most common cause of ISD seems to be relationship problems wherein one partner does not feel emotionally intimate or close to their mate.
Communication problems, health problems such as depression, insomnia, excessive stress.
Treatment is required by the professional therapist and it depends on the eliminating causes listed above.
2006-09-28 15:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you figured out what HIS love language is? Check out http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/ My wife and I both read this book and understanding how each of us most naturally communicates our love for the other has made had a big positive impact on our relationship. If your husband feels more loved, he will probably have "more interest in the marriage".
2006-09-28 15:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno much about your relationship, but here is what I can tell ya. Treat him like a King, get up cook him breakfast, greet him at the door when he comes home from work with his favorite beverage, call him during the day and tell him how much you need him, send him notes in the lunch you pack for him. Maybe you do these thing already I dunno, but I know if my wife did those things it would make a world of difference to me.
Just never let him forget how special he is to you, that all else comes second to him, trust me he will respond to you and if he is worth a plug nickle he will treat you in the same way!
2006-09-28 16:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Chief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you were a little girl and your mom got mad with you, what was the first thing you did?? Ask yourself what you did wrong.
Something went wrong with your relationship so, ask yourself the same question and act...
Best wishes and remember: love is not given, you and your spouse have to work to be in love with each other every day ...
God Bless you and your family
2006-09-28 15:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by adsomx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a homemade meal. Daily.
Clean the house. Daily.
Pay the bills first, then shop later. Daily.
Offer a glass of water when your man is cutting the grass.
Compliment him of his strengths. Daily.
These are romantic tips for a woman coming from a man.
Romantic for a man does not mean, a candlelight dinner, a date, a rose, a sweet card, etc. those are womenly romantic tips,,,,,,from a womens point of view.....not from a mans point of view.
2006-09-28 15:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the worries of life sap his abilities to enjoy that life--or wife for that matter. Put on something nice (don't go all-out, not yet), and when he sits down to some mind-numbing TV, grab the remote, flip it off, kneel down on the floor between his legs, look compassionately into his eyes and caringly say in your softest (yet intelligible--sometimes guys lose their hearing to some ranges of sound) voice, "What is wrong? You haven't been yourself lately." Then just listen. If he has nothing to say, lean up and put your arms around him and whisper, "I need you, please love me."
2006-09-28 15:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start by asking. If your husband is like mine, the conversation will be short!
Be sure to touch him frequently...even if it's just a kiss on the cheek as you pass by. I send my husband "i love you" emails on occasion. A weekend get a way is always nice.
try to confirm with him that he has lost interest, then ask why.
(btw....I'm not a man! Sorry!)
2006-09-28 15:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by kellettgal 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try wearing sexy dress n go for a wine drinking session ...aft tat juz try to get with abit romance n proceed with ur love making... but do in a diff style... dont make love as the same way u guys do always so it will spark up ur relation n sex life...
2006-09-28 15:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by SweetKiller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think a rich man goes for a mistress. Because they are not necassarily better looking than his wife as rich men have beautiful wives.
Its because these women who become mistresses know how to look and dress sexy and give the man what he wants in his wildest dreams.
Dress well in front of him and make yourself look sexier. It for your husband, it no bad.
Whenever he comes from work, smile and look happy and do what pleases him.
2006-09-28 15:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dress up
make dinner
Do something you know he thinks is sexy.
Take a bath together with candles...
umm... Have sex outside or something one night.
When he is in the shower... Jump in without him knowing.
Get something new and sexy to wear to bed
Mow the yard in something cute
Hope I could be some help!
2006-09-28 15:17:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋