I got married in august, and it feels no different to before? does it get better, will i feel married? so many questions, the only thing that i feel now is secure, indefenatley! is this normal? is it a good sign that it is no different....
i know that i'm in love with my husband, and dont regret marrying him.
i need sensible answers!
2006-09-28 08:12:08 · 22 answers · asked by storm.minx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There really isn't a 'feeling'. It is a commitment you made to that person. You guys have given yourselves to each other, and vowed that there will be no others.
Security is a good feeling. That is what you now have. That is all you need. If you love him, and he loves you......if you guys are considerate of each other, and take care to meet each others needs and even see to the 'little' things like wants and desires......
if you guys stay honest, and open, and are as FRIENDS and lovers, and not take one another for granted.........
then you will feel great.
telling someone you are married feels marvelous when your husband loves, and cares for you, and does above and beyond what is thought of or asked for to please his wife.
it's new to you.........give it a little longer. it's a very serious thing.
not to be taken lightly at all.
CONGRATULATIONS =)
2006-09-28 08:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the other people on here who say they felt no different for getting married , but getting un-married feels very different ( and not in a good way ) a friend of mine has a saying ' at the end of the day there's the washing up ' which i take to mean that no matter what you do in the day you always have the washing up to bring you back to reality , so if it feels comfortable and normal with your husband then that's exactly how it should feel , if something feels unusual then there's probably something wrong . Hope this helps .
2006-09-28 15:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by saint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good sign, you are probably doing all the things you did before you got married, which is great. Many people expect things to be different once they are married and yet when things change, they don't like the changes and that's when affairs can start. Just keep doing what you are doing and stay happy
2006-09-29 06:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually if you had a good relationship before you were married that is a great thing. I believe people think it will be different, it was never different when I got married and 8 years later still the same, sometimes could be a bad thing if you were bored then you will be bored now.
Good Luck! Congrats just keep your chin high and stay happy
2006-09-28 15:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by kirsten215 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you loved him when you married him and you love him still, be patient. If you don't regret marrying him then just be patient. I have been married more than once. The bad side of love is time has to pass before you know if it is right. There are so many situations that will come before you. The thing you should ask yourself is, "when the wind blows and the chips are down," will he be there to hold your hand?
2006-09-28 15:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by dorothysylvester 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage feels different for many people, so it's hard to say. There are many factors, i.e., you didn't state whether you were living with each other or not before you got married. Enjoy it and smile.
2006-09-28 15:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it didn,t feel much different when i got married neither..though thats 11 yrs ago....though still happy...still miss each other when we don,t see each other....we been 2 gether 19 yrs altogether with 4 kids .i mean also depends how lomg u were 2 gether b4 u married...n also wot did u expect it to feel like...as long as ur happy n in love then thats all u need for a good mariage
2006-09-28 15:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by lippylisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already lived together, chances are that it will feel no different, nothing has actually changed in your relationship.
Marriage just gives you a sense of security and is a commitment you make to each other, not a life changing event!
2006-09-28 15:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may feel that you aren't getting exactly what you dreamed
married would be like. Your normal is not any different but your in
love with your husband, so be happy.
2006-09-28 17:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a slow growth for me. Every once in a while I look at my relationship and marvel how strong and different it has grown. 7 years and still growing! I wish that for you. You seem to have a good head about you. Just marvel in the little things.
2006-09-28 15:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by RJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋