My man cheated on me with his ex last week, then asked for my forgivness. I gave him a chance & all he has been doing is treating me like sh*t!! He doesn't call me anymore, cureses at me, doesn't pick up the phone. I guess I was a fool to take him back. He didn't even try to make up for his mistake. Again why are men like that?
2006-09-28 08:36:58 · 41 answers · asked by liz7768 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I also feel so depressed I can't function. It just hurts so bad. How do you get over it?
2006-09-28 08:39:02 · update #1
Sorry I am just so out of it with the feeling of betrayal that my question should read "Why are men jerks????"
2006-09-28 08:44:32 · update #2
Why are SOME women that stupid that they judge ALL men by the actions on one?
2006-09-28 08:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that you do not deserve to be treated like this. I have seen many relationships like this were one cheats and the other so easily forgives. If you love him, it is understandable that you forgave so fast but you shold know that no one changes thata fast and sometimes they don't even change at all. You seem like a sweet person trying to give him another chance but you are opening yourself up for a heartbreak by this guy who doesn't seem to think much of you. Anyone who cheats should have to work hard for trust and love from the one they cheated on. By giving in so fast you are saying that there is nothing for him to work for. You are accepting him for the low-down cheat that he is. Be true to yourself and don't bother running after this guy and if you are still with him then get rid of him. You won't be able to "fix" him if that's what you think you can do.
Good Luck!!!
2006-09-28 08:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are jerks, just as not all women are c&nts.
But some do have a sh&t for brain streak running through their very core. He is using you solely as a place to park his pecker. Think about that. Users use people. Take the "kick me" sign off your back and do something about it.
If you take him back you are the one that still has a problem. Boot his a&s and go see a counselor, find out how you pick such sh&tty men and see what you can do to change it.
Change yourself and you change the people you associate with.
2006-09-28 08:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off not all men are the same, it's wrong for you to judge all men because of a bad experience with one defect in the male population. Second, you obviously just need to move on, forget the guy because he is not worth the time that you are using on him. He won't change and there is no point in trying to be with him. He is a cheater and you deserve better than him.
2006-09-28 08:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by TheFireWithin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously a faithless lowlife and you're better off without him. Someone like that can never love another--he's "in it for himself."
Boys are usually set a bad example, and never figure out how to have a good, sound relationship. Then they marry, and make their poor wives miserable.
If you find the son whose father shows that he loves his wife, you might have a chance at happiness, with him. (They are quite rare.)
P.S. There is no forgiveness, for those who are not sorry.
2006-09-28 08:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by mrearly2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are just dating him drop him....there are a lot of other guys out there......dont try to get into anything really serious because you will just end up getting hurt even worse then you will be even more depressed....dont worry it will hurt for a few days but then after you start looking again you will feel better.......just one day get up dress up and go out and have fun dont worry about that jerk let him go and do what he has probably been doing all along
2006-09-28 08:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by mla_forver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question should read "Why are men Jerks?" and the answer is generally we're not, you must just like Jerks. My advice is change what you look for in a man.
2006-09-28 08:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jonathan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me if he does it one time and will do it again and again, as many times you will let him do it to you. Keep your head up and say to your self I am a good person and if he really loved you he wouldn't of done it in the first place. So put a smile on your face and meet a man that is good to you forever and always' .
2006-09-28 08:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men act like jerks because the just don't know what to do with themselves. If I were you, I would dump him while I have a chance!!! It will lead to abuse.
2006-09-28 08:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by raymond b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is..Why do you let men treat u like that?? Get some self esteem and find a real man.
2006-09-28 08:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by Bear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your man is an extreme example. Men might be jerks, but this man doesn't prove that, he's just an anamoly, a very bad one.
2006-09-28 08:39:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋