how many of you married couples still hold hands when you are out together?
would you be hurt if your husband wasnt into holding hands?
2006-09-28 10:19:38 · 23 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not that I am totally against it but personally I rather not.
2006-09-28 10:20:20 · update #1
AGAIN I am totally against it and it's not like I refuse to. It just seems to be more of a kid/teenager thing
2006-09-28 10:25:12 · update #2
I agree, it's really for the young kids. After you have been married for years, this activity seems unnecessary.
2006-09-28 10:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've been married for 2 years and my husband offers his arm, rather than us holding hands. He's a foot taller than me so holding hands can be kinda awkward for us. And no, it doesn't bother me at all. Holding hands has nothing to do with how much someone loves you.
2006-09-28 10:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by bessierush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not married yet, but my parents had been married for 29 years now and they ocassionally still hold hands and is my father the one who takes mom's hand. She doesn't complains about it.
I personally don't think is a teenager thing, it is very nice to see a couple, specially those not that young, holding hands, that shows they still care enough for each other.
2006-09-28 10:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by fireangel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I hold hands. I like it. To me it is showing affection. Little things like that mean a lot. And he's usually the one reaching for my hand, which I think is sweet. But everyone is different.
2006-09-28 10:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by serenity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that my husband and I really enjoy holding each others hand. For him I think that it is a protection thing. and that is fine with me. And I would be very hurt if he did not want to hold my hand. It is my connection with him that is a comfort.
2006-09-28 10:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by naute_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 10 years, we still hold hands, put our arms around each other and even (OMG) kiss in public. And not only in public, in front of the children...... Nothing that is out of hand or disturbing. It is a sign of affection that we have for each other. If you are not into it, then no problem....
2006-09-28 10:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by wallcritter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only hold my husbands hand, if we are out together, like a dinner date or something. Not when we are out with our son or with a group.
2006-09-28 10:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband & I still hold hands after 4 yrs. Call me cheesy but I love to hold his hand, it's very romantic to me!
2006-09-28 10:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a wife to a wonderful man and we still hold hands. It doesn't seem that childish, I mean to me it is just showing that person that you are proud to be with them. You want people to know that is your other half. To me its just showing that person off and just showing your love for each other.
2006-09-28 10:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 59, she's 46, we've been married almost 25 years and we still hold hands.
2006-09-28 10:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We still hold hands.
But if he didn't want to anymore, I'll get over it.
There are other things in the world to worry about.
2006-09-28 10:31:26 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Libra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋