Why is it that when a woman stops having sex with her significant other in a LTR, does she get upset when HE goes elsewhere to get his needs met?
2006-09-28 10:06:52 · 26 answers · asked by Lou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your woman is not pleasing you phsicaly and not "meeting your needs" you might try talking to her, something must be wrong or bothering her for her to stop making love to you. Insted of going out on her try fulfilling yourself in different ways. Take her out to a nice dinner, buy her flowers, romance her maybe that will find her lost libido.
2006-09-28 11:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ayla_Trip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because the sex has become boring for her and she needs a bit of excitement from her man or just a little romance to get her going. When it becomes the same old same sex isn't so good. Instead of going elsewhere for it stay at home and work on why she's not interested.
If that's in the too hard basket then maybe you don't love her any more and it might be a good idea to move on.
If you get it somewhere else, does that make it OK for her to do that too??
2006-09-28 17:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um well.. this is sorta a trick question..
Why is the woman not haivng sex with her partner?
And I know how alot of men are.. if they don't get sex once a day they consider it like they never get it and then they complain..
And why can't men get their needs met with their hands?
Maybe with all those std's and aids out there, the woman is a little concerned about where her mans penis has been..
And if you feel the need to go somewhere else to get your needs met.. why would you even want to stay with that woman? Why not just break it off and then go "break it off" with someone else?
2006-09-28 17:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by SassySista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need sex that often, you should never have gotten into a LTR. Things happen, people become busy and sex gets delayed sometimes. Cheating is wrong, don't make excuses.
2006-09-28 17:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question? It's called cheating. If you're not getting what you want out of a relationship to a point where you seek it elsewhere, then you should go about it the right way by breaking up and then seeking elsewhere.
2006-09-28 17:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, same thing if a man is in LTR and he gets upset if a woman goes somewhere else.
2006-09-28 17:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants more than just a LTR. And then again she could be leading you on and have someone else on the side and wants to be controlling ( wanting to have her cake and eat it too.)
2006-09-28 17:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this, why does a man get upset when a woman goes out and finds a man, to give her what she needs. Simple human genes, I suppose.
2006-09-28 17:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Iam!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a LTR is about committment and LOYALTY. There is always your friend Rosy Palms if you get desperate.
2006-09-28 17:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by djsugarmuffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are assuming you are controlled by your sex urge rather than by your integrity. I'm sorry for both of you about that. There are probably reasons why your wife doesn't want to have sex with YOU. Figure that out.
2006-09-28 17:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋