I'm 19 and he's 22 in the Army, and we both knew that we werent' meant for each other from the first time we met on our blind date at baker square. We've been together for 1 year and 5 months. I know even when he does propose to me, that were not going to get married for like another 3-4 years after our engagement. I love him always and forever and he is my world, my life, my one and only true love, and our love for each other is eternal and will last until we die! I Love you forever and for always, I DO!
2006-09-28 20:07:27 · 23 answers · asked by Kristin C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 19 and he's 22 in the Army, and we both knew that we ARE meant for each other from the first time we met on our blind date at baker square. We've been together for 1 year and 5 months. I know even when he does propose to me, that were not going to get married for like another 3-4 years after our engagement. I love him always and forever and he is my world, my life, my one and only true love, and our love for each other is eternal and will last until we die! I Love you forever and for always, I DO!
2006-09-28 20:17:48 · update #1
I'm not going to tell you if you're too young or not because I don't know you. But I will say that it is more of a maturity issue rather than an age issue. My husband and I are both in the Air Force, I'm 19 and he's 20. It is very difficult at times because we both are still growing mentally but I think the beauty of that is that we are doing it together. He is my everything and despite what people may say, I wouldn't change a thing. Follow your heart. If you truly feel that you are ready to marry him, then go for it. Best of luck to you both!
2006-09-28 22:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you probably are not too young. After all, you said that you "weren't meant for each other" when you first met him, which means that it was not just infatuation. You are not planning to get married for another 3-4 years, so obviously you are planning for your future. Besides, in another 3-4 years, you will be 21-22 years old, and your fiance will be out of the Army. You sound like a mature person. Let's face it, for some people 18 is too young and for others 50 is too young! It's not about age, it is about maturity level. You do not appear to be rushing into anything unprepared. Best wishes for your future!
2006-09-29 03:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Laura K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not too young. Some of the longest happiest marriages I have seen where wed at a young age. And if you REALLY do have a long engagement then you will be 22-23 yrs old. Just, don't over romanticize or live in la-la land marriage is a full time job and you will always have to work at it. The happily ever after is only in books. Don't mistake what I am saying there is a happily ever after but it's not a perfect one!
2006-09-29 04:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by sonkysst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes .. MY OPPINION.. is that u are, i got married when i was 18 i was crazy in love with my husband.. he was in the navy.. and by age 23 we were divorced he said we got married to young, and cheated on me.. IF its the real Deal.. true love ect.. then waiting till ur atleast 21 is not a big deal.. i personally think it should be a law that u cant marry till ur 25, because u change alot between 18 and 25 and people tend to grow apart as they mature at those ages..
2006-09-29 03:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant fight love, follow your heart. Congratulations!!
Your mind is mature knowing that you should wait a few years to be married. A long engagement is a wonderful idea. You both are at ages where you are finding yourself and whom you will become.
Take Care and God Bless.
***********By the way I love Baker Square!! The best pies around!!! Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!
2006-09-29 03:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes it all sounds so wonderful.. But you are to young... For the simple fact neither of you know which direction life will take you... People change so much from late teens to late twenties.. Directions and goals and life change and what you will find is that y'all will start to drift in different directions.. If its meant to be it's meant to be.. Live together for a few years then see if your still compatible... I wish y'all the best...
2006-09-29 04:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..i miss the feeling of being young & in love.Enjoy every min of your youth.My advice is to take things slow..if you were meant to be..chances are 10yrs later you'll still be together..Dont rush into things...i got married at 19...now at 22 im thinking of divorce.If its true love...it will last.
Good luck..
2006-09-29 03:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by ddko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young to be engaged, no. too young to marry, yeah
at least with an engagement you can still get out of it but its not that easy with a marrige.
plus you plan to marry a guy in the army. are you ready prepared for the months and years that you wont see him
2006-09-29 03:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes way too young /give it three years if you still love each other get married/ if you get married now i will bet you will get a divorce in less than four years satistics prove that 9out of ten will get divorced if you doubt you should pull out. dont ruin your life your to young.you have your whole life to get married.you can always get married. once your married then youll have kids and then no money.get your life then get married.you get married too young its over trust me.ive been there.
2006-09-29 03:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by catsuitsex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was married at 18 and my husband was 21 he is the onnly man i ever loved the only one i ever had sex with but i fill so blessed cause i save that as a gift to him i have never felt i did the wrong thing he hasnt done any thing but love me and i him now for almost29 yrs good luck
2006-09-29 03:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋