what should i do? all my wife does is wine about every thing, itold her i cant take no more , but it keeps on?

Question

i told her if it dosent stop i was leaving,between that and bit. about money ,she aint had no job in eight mon.

she whines about her job , says she dont like it, but it took her 8 mon. to find one. now she acts like she dont want it , she has told her friend that i need to work and pay everything , nope . i dont make enough to pay everything , oh yeah , her fav.hobby is talkin on the phone, she would rather talk on it ,then to me.i go to bed early , cause i have to be at work at 3a.m. but she wakes me up and wants to talk, that dont float, all im wantin is some advice , i know it sounds like im whinein too.

Answer 1

You don't say what she is whining about, except money. You need to be more detailed about what is going on. Leaving is an easy solution but it probably won't rectify anything. On the other hand, depending on your situation, it might wake her up. But maybe the both of you need waken up. Just don't know enough information to give a helpful answer.

Answer 2

It's easy for us men to say I have had enough and want to run fr the door, bu in reality that's the last thing we really want to do.

Your spouse needs a hobby at this time to keep her busy whether it's bike riding, jogging, roller blading.......and that list can go on.

Encourage her to find someting that she enjoys doing. Support her and remeber you can particpate to.

Answer 3

You sound perfect for each other. You're "whining" (is the correct word), "ain't" cha?

Answer 4

i think you better sit down and talk it over with her. leaving is the easy part and if you change your mind she may nor want you back

Answer 5

well do you have a job? you should support till she gets one that's what I am doing with my husband