Marriage & Divorce - 2 October 2006

2006-10-02 14:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by Protection 1

i am a dad and i have kids 12 and 15...they moved in with me because i asked mom if they could live with me since she had them for 10 yrs...she reluctantly agreed because she didnt want the kids to go thruough a custody battle....now the kids have told her that they want to come back to her after 2 yrs....i work alot and she is remarried and a stay at home mom and says she can be there more for them....i never put my son in sports because i didnt think he was ready ans she is livid that i wouldnt help her get him into sports last year...is it fair that i should have tpo pay a lawyer lots of money....why should i have to fight for them i think i was doing ok

2006-10-02 13:56:10 · 6 answers · asked by daddyoohh2 2

Do you and your Wife or Husband go to the restroom and clean up or do you just lay and possibly sleep in your mess? When my Wife was my girlfriend, we would always have a "restroom clean-up conversation" about how good we were, and discuss my highlights. Now, since we've been married, I just roll over and we just lay there and hold each other. Sometimes I'll roll right back over for round two, or three. This is funny to me, because in Movies, they never show people going to the restroom afterward, they always have the couple under the covers, with enough clevage showing to make you wish you saw the scene. How many of you actually stay in bed, and how many of you hop up and clean up??

2006-10-02 13:50:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 13:48:24 · 3 answers · asked by spades c 1

Do you really???

2006-10-02 13:47:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife blocks the incoming calls from our son that is going thru a divorce. She says she cannot stand for him to call when he is drinking, plus she does not want to discuss his soon to be x wife with him. He was in the Iraq war, and he saw some things that I did not see in Viet-Nam. When he tried to talk to his mom about it, she told him that the United States should not have been over there in the first place. This is not what he wanted to hear. He served our Country Proudly, and now this has all happened between him and his mom.
He told me Dad you are the only one that will listen to me. I told him that he could call me anytime, but do not let the drinking get ahead of his motions and feelings. Yes, I have to agree that I have cut him off when he starts repeating himself, but I do it for his good, or at least I think I do.
He is 36 years old, and he wants to meet someone to have his own child with, but he thinks that he is too old for that.
Has anyone experienced this?

2006-10-02 13:46:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a wonderful husband but I have a problem I dont understand. Sometimes I want him to get violent(and not just during sex). I have a part of me that feels a need to be "below" him,so to speak. I wasnt beaten as a child. Any other ideas?

2006-10-02 13:38:46 · 26 answers · asked by lola s 1

If you had a beautiful wife who cooked great meals everyday kept the home nice and clean and took excelent care of your children would you still look at porn if your wife did not aprove of it?I ask this question because on another survey I did most of the men said they look at porn but is porn so important to you that you would rather have it over this? honest answers please.

2006-10-02 13:35:50 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

its not everyday but i do drink some...i think she smokes pot but im afraid to say anything because we have done it together and she may be able to use that against me...i have even asked her for it before. She is a stay at home mom(2 kidsfrom present marriage) and can be there for the kids more and that also scares me.,..they hate my live in gf too....am i going to lose them...the kids plan to tell the judge they want to go back to her....i dont know what to do

2006-10-02 13:30:59 · 11 answers · asked by pharoah_the_midget 1

My husband and I have been working on his porn addiction for a year and a half and he's been really good and gone cold turkey for almost five whole months. He asked me to put a password on the computer so he couldn't look at anything bad and he really wants to stop because I told him I would leave if he kept doing it. He loves me alot and really feels bad about doing it because he knows how bad it makes me feel and now he wants me to take the password off the computer so that he can use it when I'm not here. I really want to trust him but I can't stand the idea of finding out he did it again. Is it okay to tell him I'm not ready to take the password off? Any ideas other than stupid ones from guys who say that he needs porn and can't live without it? This is a serious question and the issue of him looking at porn is not up for discussion, it's that or me and I just want to keep things good.

2006-10-02 13:27:20 · 14 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2

2006-10-02 13:16:35 · 27 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2

2006-10-02 12:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by BlackPantherNightmare 2

Now she is in a Diabetic Coma...

Who is at fault here?

She KNOWS that I have no imagination and take things literally.

2006-10-02 12:48:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong to want to cause your spouse pain after they have admitted to cheating on you five years ago while you were pregnant? At this point I am trying to forgive him and move past this but I want him to feel the pain that I am going through I want him to hurt like I am hurting. Can anyone please give me some advice on how I can stop feeling this way????????????

2006-10-02 12:46:47 · 18 answers · asked by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4

2006-10-02 12:46:02 · 29 answers · asked by sweetgurl1377521 2

We've been married for eight months but have been intimate for over a year. He literally cannot last longer than five minutes. I am seriously frustrated and don't have a clue what to do about this.

2006-10-02 12:44:40 · 15 answers · asked by Dhara 6

I want to go away with my children on vacation but the court order states that I have to give 45 days notice. Well because of money situations I didn't want to book too far in advance and it has gone passed the 45 days. How do I get around this so that I can go and visit my family with my children? I want to travel in two weeks within Canada. Please help me I'm dealing with a very hateful and obsessed ex-husband.

2006-10-02 12:40:22 · 7 answers · asked by gillybomb 1

I have been dating this guy for a year now and he's very untrusting. Don't get me wrong he's a great guy with my kids he loves them as if they were his. The only thing is that he never lets me go anywhere alone. If I want to go visit family he is always there. He says its because he loves me so much he can't be without me, I'm flattered but I need my time away. I've caught him checking my phone to see who I call and who calls me. He has asked me to marry him but if he never changes I really don't think I could live with him like this. Should I just tell him that he needs to change and if he doesn't its over? Please help!

2006-10-02 12:36:10 · 13 answers · asked by singlemomintx 1

I single and have have been dating a married woman for almost a month. She is has been seperated since April. The divorce is in the works and she expects to get divorced, within the next few months. Should I be dating a woman who is techinically married, but has no plans to reconcile with her ex? I am not responsible for the couple parting ways. She had already made this decision before she met me.

2006-10-02 12:33:07 · 23 answers · asked by bolddragon 2

Hi stuff is been really dead in my marriage and i wanted to know how you can get your guy to fall in love with you or for him to realise you are the one for him and he would be making a big mistake if he left...he still loves me but it's slowly dying off and i want to save my marriage..please help guys views accepted too!!

2006-10-02 12:30:51 · 14 answers · asked by lovely 2

do you have any arguments or comments? I'm doing a project for social issues and anything will help. Thankyou.

2006-10-02 12:30:33 · 34 answers · asked by Ash 2

I was married to my childhood sweet heart for 13 years. I love her unequivically and without question. Our history was rocky and crazy at times but I cannot get her out of my head. We have been divorced almost a year now and we both have significant others. Since we have 3 kids together, we see and talk to eachother every couple of days. Just when I think it is okay and I can go on, I see her and immediately want her back. I still cry quite often. My girlfriend is aware of the situation (that I still am heart broke) but doesnt realize the extent. I could potentially spend the rest of my life with my girlfriendand live a happy life (she is everything that my wife refused to be!), if I could ever get my exwife out of my heart. Help! I try to convince her to come back at least weekly. I am going insane. It's like I would rather live in a bad relationship with my ex than a sexy, healthy, fun relationship with my girlfriend!

2006-10-02 12:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by dumb guy 2

I am 15 years old, and my dad is a great guy, a policemen, my stepmother lives with me and so does my stepsister (she is also 15). They also have a 1 year old. She doesnt help him pay the bills, she works full time, and all she helps with is for grocies, she spents all her money on concert tickets for her daughter. I'm really not Jelous or anything, but it kills me because my dad pays for everything, he has to work 2 jobs, he is a patrolmen and he works as a chief at a small police department. He doesnt have the time or money for me, that's fine, but I just know they are unhappy, they fight all the time, and the only reason they are staying married is for thier son?...what should I say to him, and how can I help him out?

2006-10-02 12:21:50 · 8 answers · asked by lovin' you 1

My husband and I are getting divorced...and I know for a fact that he doesnt have a gf because he's ALWAYS home. I don't know why he keeps telling he can hook me up, i can go out looking for dudes if i want, etc.

2006-10-02 12:20:04 · 6 answers · asked by texascomet 4

2006-10-02 12:16:40 · 25 answers · asked by Nile Queen 3

Met my ex 5 years ago, & married after the third year. We have no kids, & went through a painful divorce that she asked for this July. Recently my ex contacted me again, showing how much she misses me & that she wants back. She talked about wanting to have kids this time, and that she was serious.

We had a few succesful meetings, & apparently things seem to be going well. One day we had an intimate talk, & asked her to tell me anything that she might think i need to know such as if she met someone else since the divorce or such. She talked, but she mentioned nothing about a guy she recently met & proposed to her, & failed only because her parents refused.

My concern is, why would she hide this from me? Why did she lie to me when I specifically asked her? How is it possible for her to meet or love someone in such a short time (2 months) & agree to marry him?

I dont think she deserves my trust anymore, since she lied, & how it was easy for her loving someone else so quick

2006-10-02 12:11:12 · 13 answers · asked by Zwerg 3

I had a boyfriend when I met my husband. Needless to say I left him for my now husband, only problem is that this EX doesn't understand that he's just that and EX. He still calls, my mom's phone looking for me. And sends love letters to my house. If my husband find out about him...I dont want to know what will happen to the poor guy! How do I get him to just leave me alone!!??

2006-10-02 12:10:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 12:10:28 · 7 answers · asked by nemobfound2 1

2006-10-02 12:03:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

A year ago I met my husband online, he moved to where I was and we got engaged. Little did I know that about a week after he came out here he was still chatting online with some girls. I caught him red handed with a girl about 30 min. from where we lived. The relationship almost ended, but he apologized, admitted he thought I was cheating on him, and swore never to be unfaithful again! However after being married for a year, he's been a great husband, and supporter! But I still have my doubts! Is this normal, or should I trust him now once and for all!!

2006-10-02 11:57:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous