I single and have have been dating a married woman for almost a month. She is has been seperated since April. The divorce is in the works and she expects to get divorced, within the next few months. Should I be dating a woman who is techinically married, but has no plans to reconcile with her ex? I am not responsible for the couple parting ways. She had already made this decision before she met me.
2006-10-02 12:33:07 · 23 answers · asked by bolddragon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think morally you are fine...
Just be aware that emotionally, at times, you may need to give her some time and space to process hard feelings and baggage from her past. This doesn't mean that you should not date her, it just mean that you'll need to be more understanding, because she is going through a hard time... and even if she left him and is over him... its still hard... and she is still in a fragile time.
Best of luck!
I'm in the same boat.
2006-10-02 12:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If really she has decided to move forward then let her.. get divorced then start dating the reason for this.. sometimes changes of hearts do happen ,right along with a delay.. your heart is the only one breaking here.
If she is a good woman and that is something you wouldn't mind trying to go to the next level with then wait make sure the coast is truly clear.
Build something that doesn't have a loop whole in it already
2006-10-02 12:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she's still technically married, u should at least wait until the divorce is final before u date her, unless u want to be in a rebound relationship (which doesn't always work) then by all means, go ahead.
2006-10-02 12:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are assuming that you can believe everything that this woman is telling you..?????? I would never, ever, encourage you to date a married woman. Tell her your feelings, but that you want to start the relationship with complete integrity, and that you will wait until the divorce is final. People can change their minds a thousand times--and do. Don't become involved in something that could compromise your standards.
2006-10-02 12:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Nisey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is fine for you to be with her as long as you're positive the divorce is in process and she isn't just feeding you lip service.
As long as she isn't with the man, then technically you're doing nothing wrong because they're separated. But, I would advise you to be careful. She is just getting out of a marriage and jumping into a relationship with someone else so quickly can be unhealthy and lead to heartbreak.
2006-10-02 12:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has she shown you any proof or any kind of documentation that she is getting a divorce?
Maybe you should just wait until it's finalized if she wants to be with you then she will respect your reason to wait.
You never know what will happen from now until the papers are final.
2006-10-02 12:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not yet. You are a rebound relationship for her.She should take about a year to feel comfortable with herself before moving on. You don't need the baggage. Another thing is I hope her hubby isn't the jealous type. This can be an extremely agitating time for him. Watch your back.
2006-10-02 12:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing nothing wrong. My mom and her now fiance, who was married but separrated when they got together are now planning on a wedding of their own. I dont think you are doing anything wrong if you did not come between their marrage in the first place you shouldn't feel guilty about anything. It's okay to be with her but if she ever gets back with her husband or chooses to reconsile, then you need to be ready for the consequenses! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-02 14:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by Trina Sledge 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is still Married she is cheating and you are helping her out. Wait until the divorce is final.
2006-10-02 12:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not right with you dating a married woman,besides she's technically still married to her husband. why do u want 2 date someone else's wife,that means u r sharing this woman with someone else.
2006-10-02 13:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by thickness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋