We've been married for eight months but have been intimate for over a year. He literally cannot last longer than five minutes. I am seriously frustrated and don't have a clue what to do about this.
2006-10-02 12:44:40 · 15 answers · asked by Dhara 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No skills whatsoever. That's why I put my question in the marriage AND Divorce category. I've been really, really, really....Patient. I don't know how much longer I can take this.
2006-10-02 12:58:03 · update #1
Wear a Ryan Seacrest mask and start things off by proclaming that 'Tonight we have a very special 2 hour episode'.
2006-10-02 15:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 17⤊ 1⤋
This a common problem for men, especially younger men. You will have no problem finding plenty of information on the web about it. There are some antidepressant medications that are used to delay ejaculation. On the behavioral side, it really pretty much boils down to practicing delay...you can find all the details and techniques for this on the web. One thing you might not find is to have him NOT stop when he ejaculates the first time, just keep going to maintain the erection.
But you must start by commucation. Talk to your husband, let him know you are frustrated and work together to improve you love making. Have fun working on the problem together, experiment, use toys, explore together.
2006-10-02 20:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by climbikehikefoodandwine 1 · 13⤊ 1⤋
Get him to go to a dr and get his hormone levels checked. My huband was on a prescription when he was very young that had effected him to this day and he didn't realize it. You would be amazed what effects all the female hormones in food (chicken and beef especially) and milk have been having on young men.
2006-10-02 20:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra C 2 · 11⤊ 1⤋
well you might have to try some fore play are go to a sex store and get him some detain gel are even see a doctor he may have a medical reason i was told some men last a few minutes u should jac/ him for the first one and then see
2006-10-02 20:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 12⤊ 1⤋
Lots and lots of foreplay. Nothing can really make it last longer other than doing it twice. Good luck
2006-10-02 20:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 1⤋
This seems to be a common problem in a lot of relationships. Seek medical advice - only a certified doctor can diagnose and treat pre-mature ejaculation.
2006-10-02 20:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Bill B 2 · 12⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should have him please you first, then have intercourse, when he feels he is going to unleash pull out and just calm down. wait a few minutes before going at it again. if that doesn't work I hear squeezing the "balls" will make him last longer. Like when he is going to come give them a squeeze.
2006-10-02 20:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 12⤊ 1⤋
the first guy answer is good but d** a year is long time take him the Dr. and get him some Viagra that might help
2006-10-02 20:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 1⤋
Well let him finish...then he still has a tongue and fingers. Let him spend the next while pleasuring you...one he has got you going he will be ready to go again.
2006-10-02 20:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by oldman 4 · 12⤊ 1⤋
maybe you have to do it twice at a time .. the 2nd time always last longer
2006-10-02 19:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by mazen71j 2 · 12⤊ 1⤋