If you had a beautiful wife who cooked great meals everyday kept the home nice and clean and took excelent care of your children would you still look at porn if your wife did not aprove of it?I ask this question because on another survey I did most of the men said they look at porn but is porn so important to you that you would rather have it over this? honest answers please.
2006-10-02 13:35:50 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I had a wife like you described, I would never look at porn. To me, it's a total lack of respect for you, by him. He should honor and cherish you, and devote his time and attention to you, his wife. I'm not married now, but was for a long time. If I had a wife now, she would be the center of my attention, not some trashy porn star.
2006-10-02 13:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hon, it doesn't matter how good you look or all of you're other good qualities. I would still view porn if you looked like Jessica Alba.
This is an insecurity on your part.
Think about this, does your husband really have a shot at banging any of those porn stars? Yes - No? Does this mean that he's going to go and actively seek these women out because he sees them on the internet? Yes - No? All men look and I don't care WHO they are.
Is he still 'giving it to you'? Then why worry? He's not cheating.
Out of all of the women on this planet, American women are the most tight-assed about porn I've ever seen. Stop worrying.
2006-10-02 13:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without being able to look at porn as an outlet the husband might resort to other means of release. The wife could pose the ultimatum but she needs to be careful that her husband doesn't resent her for doing so. Getting into a conditional relationship (i.e. I'll clean if you don't look at porn) isn't a long-lasting solution to this problem...the wife should ask her husband WHY he feels the need to look at porn...the answer might explain a few other things that need to be addressed.
2006-10-02 13:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by dardekkis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In that situation, it's possible that the husband feels that his wife is just a "wife" and not a sexual partner anymore. He may see her as the beautiful wife, good mother and excellent cook, but not the sexual animal that he wants. Not the young hot girl willing to do things that he would be embarrassed to ask his "wife". Not the high heel, thong wearing, screaming in bed hottie that he finds on the internet. Unless he is into "milfs" then chances are that he may need to find his satisfaction elsewhere. I'm not saying this is right, or that it's fair to you, but it's something to think about. A better question to ask is what is he doing for you??? With all these great qualities you have, he better be treating you right or someone else might just want to cut in and take his place.
2006-10-03 10:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have said before....and I will say it again....its all visual.
You could have a drop dead knock out wife who was the best at EVERYTHING......and chances are....her guy would still look at porn. Why....well.....ummm....Hmmm.....dont really know but he would LOL
Its like why do women go NUTS if they go for a girls night out and see a male stripper? Cause they do LOL
Having said that IF he is looking at the really Hard porn....or kiddie porn then I think there is a BIG problem....but if its soft porn or armature couples then I don't really see a problem....I know spoken like a true man lol. And like I said before about this topic.....make your own movies of the two of you....and I Will bet you he wont look at other porn.
2006-10-02 13:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she puts out a lot and well the no..if she doesn't then yes I need porn
2006-10-02 13:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully yes, because it depicts things in a different nature , just be gald he is looking at porn and not going out to get the porn action hunny
2006-10-02 13:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by kustomflames@verizon.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the guys I know who are into porn have certain very important things missing from their life; porn seems to fill the void for them.
2006-10-02 13:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well what would be the need...doesn;t your wife still turn you on...if not so much maybe you two should think of some more romantic things to spice up your love life...i do not like porno but i know some after they have been married awhile watches this but i for one was not turned on about my husband looking at other women...
2006-10-02 13:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would enjoy makeing love to my wife not watching someone else getting off on a tv screen
2006-10-02 17:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋