I recently came to know someone in my office and we got togather as friends. She wanted to be friends but later we got attracted to each other. One day we had a fight and i think it was all my fault and i agreed to it ..later she just wanted to be friends and nothing more. Being friends with someone you have hanged around had become very difficult for me and i decided to quit friendship because it was more pain just being friends.
I work with her and i do like her a lot. and she avoids me so much. It has become so hard for me to get over her and is really painful to see her avoiding me. Please help me out.. i m loosing my concentration in work too..:(
2006-10-02 19:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by lostsomewhere2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First understand that this is the reason most companies don't want their employees to date because if it doesn't work it becomes a distraction. What you need to do is accept her decision and move on. I am sure there is someone else that would be more than willing to be friends with you. If she is avoiding you it means you are making her uncomfortable. Start avoiding her so that your paths won't cross and give things time and space to get back to normal.
I hope it all works out for you. :o)
2006-10-02 19:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Commom think practical..... You loved her she loved you ,you had a fight so what there will be fights and misunderstandings in a relationship when you can compromise why she cant.do you think she loved you truly,I think no so just let her go away.. she is not worth for you..... she had a stupid attitude that you wud go back of her even after she is started avoiding you common man you too just start avoiding her then see what happens. You have a beautiful life laid in front of you she is not the person for you ,just think and be happy that what ever happens it all happens for something more gooood... cheer up man please......... if she dont wants you ,you also dont want her.dont roam back of her like a dog.... ..... you also start avoiding her.
2006-10-06 04:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by priyaedesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first dont loose your concentration in work and you too start ignoring her by diverting your mind if she really attached to you she will too not bear your avoidness and try to contact you eitherin positive or negative sense but she will but if she is not attach to you then it doesn matter for her. if she dont loves you then dont depress as u think that you are lucky so u know this truth in beigning and if she loves you then maintain the mutual understanding and trust in your relation so it will be strong as rock .
2006-10-03 02:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by nandini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually you have hit her hard badly. She is not able to come off it.. Best remedy is take time for her for a last talk for sorting out.. If not leave her for some time, make her realise that you dont bother for her anymore, If yours and hers love is true then she automatically will revert back...
If not proceed towards the light of life. coz you have already admitted your mistake and repented too..
2006-10-03 06:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get BZ with something else and show her that you can make relation with other girls who really cares about you and you are really happy with other person.....
Trust me if she doesnt care about you its better to leave her and concertrate on your work. Coz she doesnt have any prob with her past...so if she can work without any prob then whats wrong with you?? Be a MAN........may be a better woman is waiting for you. Just find her....... take it easy bro..
2006-10-04 08:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No disrespect, But you never Go out with a co worker,Reason Why, You will have a lot of problems. Just walk a way. let it go.
2006-10-03 02:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its over, so now ,avoid her also .go on with your life
2006-10-03 02:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋