My wife leaves me then moves back in and says just friends, the whole time carousing around with men at bars (drunk), staying out late and somtimes not comming home but staying in motels with strange guys, saying that their just friends and never thinking about my feelings. She got sick and now is depressed and when her attempts to make me leave failed, she left, but couldn't make it on her own. Now we've even been with eachother which she says was more than sex, but she just keeps playin around with me. I'm about to give up and leave but if i do i'll always know she won, she got what she wanted which was to drive me away. I don't know what to do anymore, any ideas?
2006-10-02 20:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by vautiko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Darling grow a spine. Some women will use you as a doormat if you let them. You are allowing her to treat you this way. People stay in situations then they are allowing themselves to be treated like sh*t. No matter how hard it is, you have to get yourself a life away from her or she will continue to suck the life out of you. If she is drinking a lot and sleeping with other men, the woman has self esteem issues and is looking for something that these men give her. They make her feel like she is attractive and they fill a gap inside. She has issues deeper than you can fix. If you are ok with that then stick around but obviously you are not so the only way to get out of this is to get out, leave and don't look back. I know you may think its not as easy as that sounds but it is.. Just leave. You will have to deal with the emotional loss etc but first thing you gotta do is get out, pack your bags and just go. You will see how much she wants you when you cut her off completely. Make it easy for her, she will use you up and spit you out like it seems she is and has done.
BTW.. relationships are NOT about who wins, who loses. If you look at them like this, then you will never have a happy marriage.
2006-10-02 21:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bar slut. Move on and make sure she gets little since this is not a good relationship. Tell her to pack up things and get out. There are no children and she already left. Not a decent wife. Move on.
2006-10-02 20:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so confused too...but anyway give her more time and let her realize that she cant find a nice guy like u..if i am in her shoe i will stay with u....
u sounds like ur a nice guy,is just women nature..there r some guys too that confusing.
try to move on and i know it hard but do it...
im gonna do the same...
gud luck!
2006-10-02 20:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are THAT confusing. U just picked a bad apple. I suggest u stop enabling her to treat u this way and start looking out for yourself.
2006-10-02 21:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just use her the way she uses you.Stick around.live your normal live,pretend you have a roommate.You are a good person,she doesn't deserve you.You care too much.
2006-10-02 22:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are more confusing than you think they are.
2006-10-02 20:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by saz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no balls......no brains
2006-10-02 20:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋