I enter the chat room with another name and tried to tricked him that Iam another women and want to be a friend , but unfortunately he discover me. what can I do please?
Shoul I deny that he is wrong or confess to him that Iam trying to test him?
Please send me your answers as soon as possible
2006-10-02 23:29:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont disclose it was u, tell him firmly that he is wrong, and trust him, he knows u so well, but dont tell him its u, never
2006-10-02 23:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should look at the deeper issue. Why do you feel he is not trustworthy?
Has he given you some evidence that he is cheating?
Is he lying, sneaking around, acting suspicious, working "late". Does he seem distant, distracted? Has his schedule changed a lot lately?
Are you getting hang up calls a lot when you answer?
Is he spending more and more time on the computer?
If any of this is true, you have some thinking to do.
You probably need to sit down with your husband and discuss this. Then sit back and see what he does.
If he doesn't change, ask yourself how long you can put up with a man you cannot trust.
On the other hand. . . If you test a component of a system, or a car part enough times, it will fail. Save the testing for emergencies.
2006-10-03 06:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him you were testing him, especially since he has already figured it out. If you dont like him chatting on the internet and do not trust him to be faithful then you should tell him how you feel.... but.. then after you have confessed and swear never to do it again.. you need to come up with a fool proof plan so that the next time you check up on him ( and you should) he will not discover that it is you! You need to be more sneaky! Maybe you should have a friend do it for you and save all the chat logs.. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-03 06:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could he have discovered you so quickly? If you tell him you are testing him, he will know you don't trust him. You should change name again, but don't talk to him so quickly, give it time, & just watch what he does, with the other women in the chat room.
2006-10-03 06:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please Dear do not let Doubt destroy your relation
You can discuss the issue frankly with him
may be he do chat but just for enjoy his time and know friends and share opinions with others
everyone need to communicate the outer world , and everyone is curious to know more about the world specially in this open world and via Internet
best regard
2006-10-03 06:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by dr_rabiefahoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should fess up if he truly knows it was use what is the use in denying. however, you need to have an open discussion, communication is the key here. And explain why your having these feelings of no trust and the need to test him. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-03 06:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Princess, No need to DOUBT, either investigate and make sure that there is something fishy going on otherwise leave this Apprehensiveness, this is for your good.
Take care and live well!
2006-10-03 06:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to play these tricks and games your relationship is somewhat shaky already. Try to be honest with each other and figure out if you are meant to stay together or not.
2006-10-03 06:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem with chat?
It can only be jealousy that he is not spending that conversation on you. Jealousy and mistrust paves the road to divorce.
2006-10-03 06:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don,t say that because he will think you were putting him on trial and have no trust in him.just make up say sorry and pretend you were just having fun and thought you would spice up your love life by fantasizing that you were somebody else
2006-10-03 06:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by martin r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋