my friends, I know it will be little confusing a question.. since i know I am the right person to find the answer to it.. still I would appreciate all your thoughts.
actually I want to know. the reason..
Why I am loving someone.. ?
is that my selfish mind asking myself to show the love and get loved?
just sexual desire?
is there ia anything called blind love? do anyone love for nothing?
or is there anything else making me to love?
what actually making me love her..
2006-10-02 19:49:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes i agree, Its a mental activity. but I feel there is little more spiritual thing going around making me to love.
some kind of force..
to give love and to get loved.
Do anyone have thoughts somethig like this?
sometimes I feel I love because in my own mind I wish she love me back and It is all my mental and physical behavior making myself do the things that will sooth her.. that will make her love..
Do anyone feel It is selfishness?
Sometimes It is something else too...like I love just when I see my 'life' in her - (a person i could say I love.)
when I see there is something I need to give to her and there is something I need to find from her..
2006-10-02 22:02:26 · update #1
No danny! it is not like that..
I have a love inside.. i was just trying to find Why I do that.. what is that force making me to do that..
I think you took my question wrong!
anyway Thanks for your thoughts!!
2006-10-02 22:54:43 · update #2
Life and people are strange at best! They come up with different things to explain LUST!
1 . They call it love!
2 . They call it blind love!
3 . They call it love at first sight
of course there are many more, but, you get the idea! Men and women both do the same thing concerning this.
Yes, there is love, and you know it, when it happens, you don't have to ask about it! You won't even look at another person! You will eat, drink and sleep the person you are truly in love with!
Other wise it is plain old lust, and ever one is highly lustful!
2006-10-04 09:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if there is any real RIGHT or WRONG answer about why we love but this website is helpful.
Love Defined:
A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
Sexual passion
Sexual intercourse
A love affair
An intense emotional attachment, as for an appreciated pet or treasured object.
2006-10-03 02:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by SoCalGal75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime , Uare so confused about it. If you should love someone? or love for what? May be you are so complex? Maybe when U are in college, U had nothing for love someone and for someone love U? and when U got a job, U feel to be lack of confident to find a love , u just want **** cus u needn't remember them or be bond.Ultil one day, U feel so tired about that and want to someone to live with .And maybe It will happen even U can't expect.
2006-10-03 05:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by dani ng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are born with feelings, sad , happy, angry, greed, jealous etc.. love is the powerful one. Love is astrange feeling, the real love keeps excited and happy like everything is wondeful like heaven(never been there) love for money or petty, is not real love. It means aperson just want to take advantage of another persons wealth, generosity, popularity etc. Its the greatest gift from us. Chemicals from our brain transmit to our body how we feel to one person. Beauty, kindness, honest, friendly etc...personality that makes other person fall in love. Hope I answer your question.
2006-10-03 04:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart and emotions make you do stupid things like falling in love. I swear, love is the most painful, disturbing, upsetting thing a person has to deal with. It has to do with the features and the scent of her that makes you so damn stupid. I hate it! But we can't help it cause it makes us procreate and that is all there is to it!
2006-10-03 02:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋