my husband does nothing around the house, and i do it all, his never thankful or says anything nice to me, he don't want to have sex, and he stays in our room, and tells me how worthless i am
2006-10-05 06:05:29 · 15 answers · asked by rockerad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he doesn't find you worth anything, find someone who will appreciate you for what and who you are.
2006-10-05 06:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters don't think you are worthless because your not. But if that is what he thinks then you really don't need a man like that. And to make him start appreciating you l would stop doing things for him don't do his laundry, make him cook his own food and when he is wanting sex you say that you don't want to, he will decide that he needs you or not. Because girl if you can do all that by yourself then you don't need a man. You sound like you can stand on your own two feet by yourself. Find a man that respects you and appreciates you for what you do.But if you want to make the marriage work then TALK to him tell him how you feel and if that doesn't work and you see that your marriage isn't going to change then tell him to hit the door and don't let it hitcha where the GOOD LORD splitcha. GOOD LUCK GIRL.
2006-10-05 13:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by poolmom2702 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like depression to me,get him some meds and go from there.
Everybodies always saying divorce...I'm sorry but you made a commitment...for better or worse.
Try to help him first,if he doesn't want help,then do whats right for you.
There was something there when you met him,isn't that why you married.
And i hate to say this but a relationship takes work,and hard work.
there is more downs than ups.
2006-10-05 13:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by seandebra17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! don't divorce him. present him with a bill. j/k . it sounds like he doesn't really understand how much you actually do. tell him he is taking care of the house for an entire MONTH and that you are going to a spa. or getting a job for a month. it doesn't matter if you are working mickey D's the point is for YOU to be a breadwinner and for HIM to run the household and to see what it's like to be in your shoes for a while and to see what you ACTUALLY do all day.
2006-10-05 13:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hint him that his attitude is not acceptable and the words he say to you must not be said by someone respect himself. Tell him that your relation it's base is respect. try to let him wash his own cloths or clean his own desck or prepare the dinner and the breackfast... Try but in good way.. ask him to tell you thankful words..that's normal when you want anything, be understandable with your husband and ask him to do it.
2006-10-05 13:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by sweetshima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to leave. This is a selfish a**hole. You would be so much better off without him in your life. You would make some else a wonderful lover and wife, someone who deserves so much more. Good luck.
2006-10-05 13:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave for a week or two, tell him you will only come back if is more appreciative and helpful. If it doesn't work, you are better off without him.
2006-10-05 13:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by missyhardt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Called find yourself a New Man
2006-10-05 13:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing it for a little while. Go on strike! Once he has to do it all by himself he will realize how lucky he is.
2006-10-05 13:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by babyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try counseling. Maybe sit him down and say look we need to talk or i'm going to leave. Good luck...I've been there. If you want to talk email me.
2006-10-05 13:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋