2006-10-05 06:29:13 · 21 answers · asked by lizdouglas_liz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I HAVE A DESIRENESS SINCE LONG TO BE BRIDE - WHAT CAN I DO?
2006-10-05 06:30:38 · update #1
That's all your faults - Did u take any commitment from him that after some time he will marry u - he already used u for 3 years. I don't know u have any kids or not if u don't than say GOODBYE TO HIM.
2006-10-05 11:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by john_0502000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE A DESIRENESS SINCE LONG TO BE BRIDE - WHAT CAN I DO?
No disrespect but man, your writing skills are awful. Are you even old enough to get married?
The problem with young girls is that their friends get married and they get all goo goo about it and they are more into the wedding that actually being married. Your into the bride thing and not into the ups and downs of marriage. Your no where near ready.
2006-10-05 13:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...why don't you take a look at the dippy broad who has been with her hubby since 15....20 now...he's in the military and treats her like sh*t and she's stuck in Italy and crying the blues and whining about not knowing what to do.
Better re-evaluate "wanna be bride". You may wish you'd waited abit longer.
2006-10-05 13:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females these days should find out during the beginning of a relationship if their future friendship with guys may become more permanent before giving up so much of their lives. There are some guys who just don't intend to get tied down as they put it, so then you can move on to someone who has more potential. He may be one of those guys.
2006-10-05 13:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u>? it has been this long....did u just decide to get married or what? dont u guys talk about this? you dont want to pressure him. he will never be hapy in that marriage. the problem is, women sometimes end up with men that are not compatible. you should always get a guy that has similar life plans. get a guy that is already esablished and ready for a wife
2006-10-05 13:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 yrs is long enough for him to know if he wants to marry you are not. As long as he can have it his way, he will. If you really want to get married, give him an ultimatum, if he chooses not to, find someone who is looking for a real commitment.
2006-10-05 13:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to give him an ultimatum. Women have been going this for years tell him you marry me or we will have to break up because it's imported to me to get married it means you really love me and your committed to me all the way and if he still doesn’t want to marry u he never will and u will have to move on and sometime a break up is good ..............they realize how much they miss u and how much they can’t live with out you
2006-10-05 13:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by twohot1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make him marry you. But you dont have to wait forever. If he wont someone will. Let him know how you feel. If he cant comment, then move on. There are better fish in the sea......
2006-10-05 13:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 2 more years. If you two can stand each other for five years then start discussing it.
2006-10-05 13:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by *Shy Girl* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, that's a problem... Sounds like he doesn't want to marry you. Hopefully, you can find a guy who does, cuz you're wasing your time with this one.
2006-10-05 13:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋