he wants a divoce i dont gods law says its no grounds for divoice i am not goig back to him but i dont want to divoice him
2006-10-05 06:17:56 · 11 answers · asked by emma m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is beating you, YOU CANNOT go back to him. Where in your marriage vows did it say that he could beat you. What happend to "love,Honor, Cherish" Now If he has broken those vows, I hate to tell you honey you are already divorced. Just make it is legal so he will be forced to pay child support or alimony to take care of you. God doesn't want you to be hurt by your husband, and Paul said that " you may put away an Unrighteous Husband" not that legalism has any bearing on the New Covenant, anyway. Punish him severely for his misdeeds.
2006-10-05 06:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Democestes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.....so is God going to step in when hubby takes a swing at you? Nope. Of course he'll set aside a place on judgement day for you after hubby kills you. Isn't that nice?
Forget the church and that nonsense. Anybody with any brains will tell you to get the hell out now while you're still in one piece.
Divorce him. Hey...c'mere..let me tell you a secret...regardless of what you may think...God doesn't consider it a mortal sin if you have to divorce to save your own life. He'd rather see you alive than dead.
If any priest even hints that despite your abusive situation divorce would be wrong than he should hang. Especially as an accessory to murder if you stay and you're killed.
2006-10-05 06:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry hun ... but, does "Gods law" state that you have to stay in a marriage, until your husband permanently disables or kills you? Divorce him ... find someone that will treat you with the respect you deserve.
2006-10-05 06:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confusion sucks... You need to move on with your life and the only way you are going to be able to do this is if you cut all ties..
2006-10-05 06:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Not Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is the only answer. God will understand.
2006-10-05 06:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was abusive stay away. God doesn't like his children abused. Live alone you will be happier eventually.
2006-10-05 06:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you need to chose what you're going to do.
think of your well-being, not your husbands.
if you're going to let him beat you up, at least fight back.
2006-10-05 06:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seperation can also lead to some unpermitted acts.if you must follow god's law,you must be dilligent about it.
2006-10-05 06:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it may be best to get a divorce. god will forgive you!
2006-10-05 06:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by amber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then what are you going to do?
2006-10-05 06:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋