Marriage & Divorce - 15 August 2006

yes or no?

2006-08-15 03:17:23 · 28 answers · asked by The general 1

Don't you need four people to play contract bridge?

2006-08-15 03:12:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's like a pie....3/4 is the most amazing, care, loving, sensitive man you can think of. This is the part I married...but 1/4 of him comes out when he is angry. This is the part that will say whatever he can to me to hurt me in that moment. Comments have consisted of, I'm lazy, out of shape, bi**hy, mean, uncaring, even that I am gay cause I don't initiate sex...etc. He doesn't get that those comments he can so easily forget have stayed in my mind. The next day, or a few hours later, he's like his old self. He has been physical in the past, some of the times causing bruises, each time ripping apart my self worth...When he gets in his "rages" he is incapable of listening, and either talks over me, or doesn't shut up for 3 seconds. He'll talk to himself and make his own conclusions based on assumptions he just said. Its like I don't even have to be there for him to blame me for things. He's a different being when he's angry. What do I do when the only thing wrong with him is the anger?

2006-08-15 03:11:59 · 66 answers · asked by Marisa M 1

I truely love him, and only him, but I don't know how to let go, I try and after 4 or 5 days, I'm calling to tell him that I miss him, I actually get heartache, they say be strong, but I don't know how to go about being strong. Love is powerful.
He loves the two of us, I do know. We even take trips together, not with wife though.

2006-08-15 03:05:18 · 37 answers · asked by tami78731 1

her smile is now a lottery ticket, a one in a million chance to win.

2006-08-15 02:56:56 · 37 answers · asked by cyberchessnut 2

2006-08-15 02:56:28 · 13 answers · asked by har 3

Father and I had been together for 23 yrs,divorced year and half ago.My sons (3) did not want to leave their house so they stay with their dad most of the time. Their dad is irresponsible and emotionally inmature. The kids do what ever they want. I live in IN,they live in Oh. I am getting ready to move in their school district because now their dad has to move.He doesnt own the house. I live with someone and we have a very good relationship. He also has kids (2) hi kid wants to stay in his school and my kids want to stay in theirs. Basically, I feel since I have not lived with my kids on a full time basis, I have lost all and any control. Mainly with my 14 yr old. I have one 19 and 17 almost 18. I dont know how in the heck I am going to get the 14 yr old back to at least "stable". I think he is very hurt and very resentful about the divorce but tries to act like he doesnt care. The rumors of the drinking and crap are very disturbing to me.

2006-08-15 02:54:41 · 7 answers · asked by crazartgirl 4

My husband was having an affair with another woman and now we are trying to work on our relationship. When we are together, I really enjoy being with him, think about what happened, and get insecure and push him away. How can I let go of my fears and learn to appreciate and enjoy time with him? I know it takes time, but what steps can I take to let go of my fear?

I also want to know how I can have a normal conversation with him? I constantly want to talk about what happened and find myself expressing doubts to him. I don't want to be like this.

2006-08-15 02:47:51 · 24 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

How anyone lived with thier spouse as roomates because they can not afford to move out? I am, we have three kids and it's hard but do able. Right now he has a girlfriend and just is all over her (new relationship) but in a way I am jealous cause even when we dated he never was like this with me. I just wonder if anyone has done this what worked?

Mature people only please

2006-08-15 02:33:26 · 15 answers · asked by moonspawnhotmailcom 2

She says i dont tell her enough how beautiful she is. I tell her all the time all she can say is you dont mean it. She says she is fat and she is not at all. She says i like living alone and not being with them. I tell her yah sure i would rather be being shot at then to watch my son grow up. What else can i say?

2006-08-15 02:30:56 · 22 answers · asked by pazz 1

2006-08-15 02:22:19 · 20 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3

Hi there. Was with a girl for 2 years 6 months ago. She left me. I have moved on alot since then and alot more happier. The question is, I am really looking forward to my next relationship, but at the same time I am so scared and not sure if I ever want one again. I keep on looking on dating sites to find someone but I never do. Just wandering if anyone has been in a similar situation, and how did you know when you were ready again. Silly it sounds but my mind is in two places. Thanks in advance.

2006-08-15 02:18:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend is hooked on painkillers she is now in detox and i feel bad i tell her just stop she says I dont understand how they make her feel she says she gets so much energy shes on vicodin,percocet who here knows why the energy i would be on my bed layed out ,why cant she just stop she says she only takes one pill a day now.

2006-08-15 02:16:31 · 13 answers · asked by nicole l 4

2006-08-15 02:12:57 · 37 answers · asked by Rinkals 1

Just wondering.

2006-08-15 02:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-08-15 02:11:15 · 9 answers · asked by greenejl 2

We have young children together. I just never know when the right time to leave would be. Do you plan and risk changing your mind until the next violent episode comes, or just do it spur of the moment? I don't have much money, but I do have a job.

2006-08-15 02:10:29 · 14 answers · asked by Untitled 3

how would you deal with your husband?

2006-08-15 02:07:43 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

married for 12 years.no kids as i never wanted them because of strained relationship with my husband.he is 11 years elder to me.. very dominating and workholic.he says that he loves me a lot but i have never felt in so many years.i am in very confuse state of mind as what to do?my parents want me to be with him but i have no sharing with him.i am 30 now,live in delhi, india

2006-08-15 02:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by rani 1

2006-08-15 02:05:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is married. We are together from 5 years and I love him more than everything. I think and believe he does the same way too. But he has 2 children and he is afraid from them to be guilty if he will be divorce. But is hurts like hell to be without him. WHAT I HAVE TO DO, TO LEAVE HIM OR TO GIVE ANOTHER CHANCE TO MY LOVE WITHOUT KNOWING IF HE WILL THINK IT AGAIN.....

2006-08-15 02:05:31 · 39 answers · asked by Ani I 1

The woman is getting a divorce and my boyfriend has been friends with both of them for a long time before we got together. He cheated on her for years.My boyfriend used to joke around and say she leave him and go out with my boyfriend. She told him since she is getting a divorce she would get him a chance if not for the fact we are together.I really do not like this woman even before this.He still talks to her and sometimes stops to see her.Even to the point of talking to her teenage son . He is not his parent and should not be part of this his parents should take care of this. Should I worry when he calls her or she calls him, or visits her. She has the mistakened idea we are friends.I do not want to have anything to do with her. My boyfriend and I have had arguments because of his visits and phone calls. I think she disrespected me by saying she would go out with him if not for the fact we have lived together fr two years. Should I worry something might happen on one of these visits?

2006-08-15 02:02:45 · 5 answers · asked by butterfly 2

What are the legal rights of dads. Why are we always the parent who tends to suffer when a marriage dissolves?

2006-08-15 02:01:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY PARENTS WERE MARRIED FOR 24 YEARS AND THEY JUST GOT A DIVORCE IN DECEMBER. I FEEL LIKE I GOT THE SHITTY END OF THE DEAL. THEY BOTH BAD MOUTH EACH OTHER AND IT PISSES ME OFF. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-08-15 01:57:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my nose in a different room of the house. Now, I am afflicted with horrible allergies & I'm a constant blower. I feel rude getting up all the time to go somewhere else to blow & I don't want to miss out on what our guests are talking about. Somebody help.

2006-08-15 01:51:57 · 28 answers · asked by badgurl 5

iam muslum and i have been marryed for 7 years i got marryed at 16 my parents forced me to. i met this guy online and he lives right by my parents house he muslum like me. i live right now in syria iam planing on visting my parents next summer with my 3 kids . i want to meeet him so bad he is everthing i always wanted in a guy . but i could never tell him that iam marryed . my husben dont really care about me. i have feeling for him still . what should i do HELP ME

2006-08-15 01:48:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband moved back home over a month ago after having an affair. He still lives out of his suitcases and hasn't unpacked yet. Is he planning on leaving again?

2006-08-15 01:32:56 · 53 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

My girlfriend who I lived together with for almost 2 years, moved out. she says that she was unhappy and left. now she has forced me to sell our new house, she has no money, stress out all the time, living in a bad part of town and she is refusing my help. she says that she would rather live there then our beautiful 4/2 house that we have. she says that she had to go and she holds all this resentment for me. I feel horrible for her. she is in a bad situation, and I am broken hearted. everything that I do seems to make this whole situation worse not better. I love her and want her to come back home. We never had relationship problems that would justify this. she says that she cant come back to me and she thinks that I am this person that I'm not. I dont know what to do.

2006-08-15 01:19:48 · 24 answers · asked by boatsman13 1

Beyond the ussual compliments, what else can be done? My wife has a poor self image. I love her and want to help her feel better about herself. She is tough to crack so the simple things don't work so well. I need to find some creative aproaches.

2006-08-15 01:19:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-15 01:16:44 · 14 answers · asked by warren_31316 1