Marriage & Divorce - 15 August 2006

2006-08-15 05:11:44 · 25 answers · asked by jadfritz 2

What happened? what did you do? was it just a phase?

2006-08-15 05:11:09 · 13 answers · asked by lost 1

My Fiance is on the road alot, and we don't really have much time to go throught the traditional premarital counseling. I was just wondering if anyone has come across any biblical premarital workbooks that will serve as a substitute for now.

2006-08-15 05:04:26 · 2 answers · asked by working_girl1115 1

We are in a constant battle on money (she is). I feel that the great State of Texas only helps the custodial parent and make the non-custodial look like crap. I'm going to admit, I have told her pretty nasty things and it hurt me saying them to her but she needs to undersatnd that I have feelings too. I'm about to get married with a wonderful person and I feel that this ordeal is affecting my current relationship. I fell like if she does not want me to be happy. I have accepted her way of "life", but not to be around my daughter's eyes. I DONT WANT TO DEAL WITH HER IN ANY WAY!!! All I want is to see my daughter and pay what has to be paid. I believe what goes around comes around. What do you all think?

2006-08-15 05:02:50 · 9 answers · asked by rick 1

2006-08-15 05:02:45 · 36 answers · asked by EVY 3

2006-08-15 04:53:41 · 20 answers · asked by akilahlking 1

wont take them back. My brother finally confessed to his wife that he was having sex with her mom and is angry because she kicked him out of the house. He is also angry because i am still friends with her. My relationship with her has nothing to do with him. I knew her before he did. I don't talk bad about my brother I am just there for her she just lost her mom and husband and she needs a shoulder to cry on. How do I get my selfish brother to understand I am not taking sides in something he put me in the middle of. ( I caught them at my house before but I made him tell her). I love my brother but wrong is wrong.

2006-08-15 04:48:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

PUT ME IN THE HOSPITAL. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND HE IS THE ONLY MAN I HAVE REALY HAD A REALATIONSHIP WITH. WE HAVE TWO CHILDREN WHOM I WOULD GIVE THE WORLD FOR. WE SEPERATED FOR ABOUT SIX MONTHS AND I JUST RECENTLY RETUNRED HOME THINKING HE HAD CHANGED AND AFTER ONLY TWO MONTHS THINGS ARE BACK TO THE WAY THEY WERE BEFORE AND HE RECENTLY JUST HAD A SPELL WHERE I HAD TO BE HOSPITALIZED . I KNOW WHAT PEOPLE READING ARE SAYING YOU IDIOT LEAVE HIM. BUT YOU SEE I STRUGGLED WHEN I LEFT AND HAD TO WORK TWO-THREE JOBS AND NEVER SAW MY CHILDREN. I MISSED OUT ON SO MUCH BECAUSE BETWEEN TRAVELING TIME AND WORKING I NEVER SAW THEM. I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT IM TIRED OF FIGHTING WITH HIM AND HE CHEATS ALSO. HE DID ABOUT SIX MONTHS AGO THATS WHY I FINALLY LEFT. I JUST THOUGHT HE HAD CHANGED AND THAT OUR FAMILY COULD BE BACK TOGETHER.N OW I FEEL I HAVE MADE A MISTAKE. BUT I DONT KNOW IM SCARED TO BE WITHOUT HIM BECAUSE HE IS ALL I KNOW WE ARE NOW TRYING COUNSELING WILL IT WORK?

2006-08-15 04:45:20 · 25 answers · asked by candace c 1

2006-08-15 04:41:39 · 15 answers · asked by Jewells 5

I am at a total loss and have seeked friends advices and none can help me answer for many days and I hope some one here can help me with that.. its giving me too much distress and its taking a toll on my job as well.

We have a 7 year old daughter and she is very very attached to me (father). We have 50/50 custody of child and was seperated for 4years before we finally got a divorce this year. during my seperation i found someone else and got married right after i divorced. just a few days ago, i found out she's getting married and moving to the US with daughter.

I'm very upset over this issue of daughter moving away is becos' the utmost paramount issue to me is Giving The Best to her.

I want her to have the Best education and i think the US has got some pretty good schools but that would mean I will not be able to see her since I live half way round the world in Singapore.

2006-08-15 04:41:09 · 14 answers · asked by LG 1

My husband has suffered from anxiety and/or depression for years and recently it has been really bad. I'm 9 months pregnant and the stress is taking a huge toll on me. He will not take medication as he has always been against it but he does have an appt with a therapist tomorrow. I'm trying to be strong because when I get upset he gets worse but does anyone have any advice on how I can cope with this before I end up in counseling with him!?!

2006-08-15 04:38:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If it takes someone on the outside of your marriage to get to the bottom of the problem in your marriage don't you think that's another problem or is it just me. I thought whatever happens between the two should stay between the two, you work things out. And make your decision from there. Since when has it been okay to get a third-party to help.

2006-08-15 04:33:39 · 12 answers · asked by Toya J 3

2006-08-15 04:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by C H 2

2006-08-15 04:24:25 · 23 answers · asked by SNAP! 4

Have i done anything wrong? have aked her a number of time but she still tells me nothing; i recieve calls at Night from l;adies but am not cheating on her; or she suspectin me? she screams when i have sex with her before marraige but now she does not even want sometimes and she does not scream again

2006-08-15 04:19:28 · 23 answers · asked by segsky 2

My friend is dating this guy who works with her.They both were married but just fall in love.She started the divorce process but he kept delaying it..In Jan the guy broke off saying he is going back to his wife but after four months came back to her and said he found out his wife is also cheating on him and now they are even.They had few good months and again he says that since his family is very religious and he feels God don't want him to divorce(He is already divorced once and his wife also has three teenage kids from her first marriage..).My friend is very miserable as she is in middle of her divorce and the reason she did it is backing off..Since they both work in the same department(he sits in the next cube) its even harder for her to avaoid him.He is still living alone.He is talking to my friend but in a very formal way...
My friend needs some advice..Please help her..

2006-08-15 04:18:01 · 26 answers · asked by jheel04 2

we are now divorced. so why won't he come clean? what's he afraid of?

2006-08-15 04:07:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-15 03:52:46 · 42 answers · asked by Phantom of the Opera 4

My guy occasionally looks at porn ( I know because sometimes I use his computer) but its always the same site or type of site. Its a live sex show/web cam where you can look for free but theres also options to chat with the girls, send the girls mail (not sure whether email or regular), buy them gifts or have a private show. He supposedly only uses the free stuff. I dont mind guys occasionally looking at porn but I dont consider this regular porn. Movies & pictures are one thing, but live people are another. A couple of years ago, I told him how I felt in depth & mentioned it a couple of times since. How do I bring this up with out giving him an ultimatum? He doesnt take well to those. He has made some changes but not this one. Do other women mind their husbands/boyfriends watching this? Do you guys out there think this is just harmless or could lead to something else? Thanks for ANY input.

2006-08-15 03:52:23 · 17 answers · asked by scorpiogreeneyed 1

2006-08-15 03:51:58 · 25 answers · asked by The general 1

2006-08-15 03:51:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

loves one in wrong? How can any man call his self a man punching a pregnant woman in the stomach? Why is it that the law/police is so blind to things like this? Will this man get his just reward for the abuse he caused anyone in his life? Will he be stopped? before he hurt another female or child?

2006-08-15 03:47:27 · 5 answers · asked by fresh start 1

2006-08-15 03:44:49 · 23 answers · asked by missy 4

before she leave's me. She's more attractive now then 10 years ago, and I worry I can't keep up with her exercise routine. Should I worry that she will dump me if I don't exercise more?

2006-08-15 03:42:33 · 40 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

What should you do if your guy is messy? my boyfriend is kinda messy and i am a neat freak. It bothers me so much. I dont know what to do. He leaves his clothes on the floor and not in the basket. etc.

2006-08-15 03:41:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very open in the bedroom with my husband. I just have one thing or certain people I will not do. And he was okay with it. But, some time later, he now wants to talk me into doing something that I don't get turned on with. The thought of me doing this for him, turns him on incredibly.
My question is... is it normal for a man to feel powerful to get his woman to do something she usually wouldn't do?

2006-08-15 03:41:02 · 7 answers · asked by missy 4

I'm going to tell her I got a woman pregnant, and the woman is her sister!!! I bet she will burst into tears. LOL. Don't you love my idea?

2006-08-15 03:33:08 · 19 answers · asked by angrysandwichguy1 3

2006-08-15 03:25:43 · 13 answers · asked by robin raj. 1

I want the possibility to marry again and if I find someone who has never married in church to do so. Is this possible?

2006-08-15 03:21:17 · 12 answers · asked by jmd0862 1

why do people have to hate each other after divorce? what if you still saw each other? is that bad? is it illegal?

2006-08-15 03:19:51 · 22 answers · asked by sonny 2