Have i done anything wrong? have aked her a number of time but she still tells me nothing; i recieve calls at Night from l;adies but am not cheating on her; or she suspectin me? she screams when i have sex with her before marraige but now she does not even want sometimes and she does not scream again
2006-08-15 04:19:28 · 23 answers · asked by segsky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Welcome to married life!!!
Stop doing things around the house - don't help her clean, don't mow the lawn, don't do a damn thing! When she complains, tell her you are on strike until sex becomes a daily part of the marriage!
2006-08-15 04:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she complain about you receiving calls from ladies? If she does, she is probably suspicious. It is time for you to make a real commitment. You're married so what's up with the other women? Secondly it's not marriage that kills the sex life. What do men stop doing after marriage? Foreplay? Romance? Do you still kiss like you did when you were dating? Foreplay is a MUST. A woman needs time to warm up. She needs to connect emotionally. There needs to be some affectionate moments that don't lead to sex. We're complicated creatures lol.
2006-08-15 11:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Carol B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know she may not have much of a sex drive. Unlike men woman tie in sex with emotion. So if she feels stressed out emotionally sex won't be of any importance to her. Secondly, if your wife seem disinterested try to be romantic and I don't mean do something outside of your character because that's too obvious. What you should do is take the time to talk to her genuinely and let your heart lead you to do things you wouldn't normally do unless you wanted to make her happy. Lastly, try to help her unwind by using a lot of four play and catering to her I guarantee you she'll be rived up quicker than an engine on a Chevrolet El Camino!
2006-08-15 11:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An open discussion would definitely help. Also introducing something new and fun would be a major plus. Perhaps you can come up with an idea together. Like meeting at a bar and pretending you are picking her up and taking her home for a one nite stand. You can sweet talk her like you use to before you got married. Good luck!
2006-08-15 11:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by angelkiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my personal experiednce. your wife may feel unattractive and not sexy to you. my husband cheated on me several time and girls would call our home all the time. it got to the point where i felt that i wasnt good enought for my husband and he wansnt attractive to me i felt like he was cheating all the time and it was because of the way i looked. my solution. tell your wife you love her and if your not cheating dont have girls call your home, tell your wife before you get intimate that shes beautiful and remind her how much you love her. surprise her by buying her some flowers and maybe a sexy nightie to go with it. be spontaneous, make her feel important. not saying you dont. just giving you some suggestions. good luck.
2006-08-15 11:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by candace c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something's changed, for her to lose interest. Could be a hormonal imbalance that's causing this.
Maybe she's bored. Maybe her feelings have changed for you. She may love you, but no longer 'be in love'.
Sit her down & have an open honest discussion. The only way you'll get the answers to your questions..
2006-08-15 11:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you quit talking to other woman at night and try something romantic with her. Try talking to her see what is going on there could be some medical problem for her not wanting to have sex with you. It may have nothing to do with you.
2006-08-15 11:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she tells you she loves you because she don't want to loose what you all have together. She tell you she loves you because that's what you want to hear.She don't have sex with you because she's no longer attracted to you (not really feeling that). I know, when I feel out of love with my boyfriend I also no longer wanted to have sex anymore but stayed together because at the time I didn't want to be alone...
Anyway why should she have sex with you when she thinks other weman are involved? I wouldn't either. HELLO
2006-08-15 11:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. That special new sparkling physical touch you get in a new relationship isn't there anymore. There's nothing unusual about the sex drive getting lower.
2006-08-15 11:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lyvy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who speaks late at night with other women either. Do you make her feel beautiful? Do you look at her like you used too? If you have children do you leave the bulk of the raising of them to her? Look at yourself first before blaming it all on her.
2006-08-15 11:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋