Marriage & Divorce - 15 August 2006

so how do i explain this to him when i i dont even know why he gets up set an mad. i love him with all my heart. why is this an how can i explain this to him.

2006-08-15 17:52:06 · 4 answers · asked by jdfreitas76 1

when my 27 year old unemployed stepson came to live with me and the wife, she said she would leave when I informed her I didn't want to work all day and come home to him wasted and sleeping on my couch at 5:00 in the afternoon. He is the most worthless person Ihave ever met. He abanded his 9yr old son with us for days at a time, all OK with the wife. He's stole from us, again OK with the wife. I finally have him pushed out the door but I can't get over how my wife treated me to always defend him. Should I even try to get over it or learn the lesson that I don't mean sh!t to her and initiate a divorce. We actually get along really well now that hes gone but I have a terrible time moving past how unimportant she made me feel.

2006-08-15 17:37:41 · 22 answers · asked by noname 2

2006-08-15 17:35:00 · 18 answers · asked by lil'sexy 1

2006-08-15 17:33:00 · 8 answers · asked by singinsoulfully 1

is there anyone who has been married for a year or more to someone who they did not love at the beggining but then grew to love them during the marriage?

is the person you are married to the one you wanted? or did you settle for this person cause the person you wanted to marry was not available or not interested in you?

how did you know this is the person for you or do you ever know this is the person for you even after you say i do?

is it true that if you have to ask if this is the person then this is really not the person?

is it true that if this is the person for you for life then there are no questions about it?

how do you know you love this person for marriage reasons?

2006-08-15 17:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7

I live in Florida and i jsut think that there are masses of gay couples here, well atleast i know alot and i live in a lil po' dunk town, so i think maybe we should be another state that allows gay marriages, because i know i would love to marry my girlfriend in the same state i met her in.......it would be sentimental i think.....

2006-08-15 17:22:08 · 13 answers · asked by Page 1

I have always been very close friends with my cousin Jenn. She married her high school sweetheart, Derek, a few years ago. They had 3 children together. They were the family that everyone wanted to be: loving parents, beautiful children, they met in a Christian singing group, they were active in our church...the list goes on. They were what I thought of when I thought "perfect marriage." However, less than a year ago Derek started coming home drunk, or not coming home at all. Then Jenn found out he was having an affair....with another man. She asked him to move out. She has 3 children to take care of and a house to pay for, and her job does not pay well. However, she has forgiven him; she is very kind to him and lets him come see the children all the time. But I still feel betrayed. I know he hurt her more than he could ever have hurt me, but I just can't find it in my heart to forgive him. What can I do to overcome this and forgive him like I know I should?

2006-08-15 17:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want it to be a Romantic, lovely, great proposal...
i want to propose to somegirl i really love, and i want it to be the best proposal ever..
can u help me please...

2006-08-15 17:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and I have an anniversary coming up the 28th of this
month and every year he always gives me money and tells me to
get whatever I want, but what I really want is for him to put his heart into it and get me something on his own, I mean it doesn't even have to be expensive just as long as I know that he put his heart into it. I wouldn't care if it was a card or just a simple rose, as
long as I didn't have to tell him and he did it all by himself. please serious answers only.

2006-08-15 17:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by christina j 3

2006-08-15 17:02:39 · 4 answers · asked by tag 62 1

2006-08-15 17:01:19 · 10 answers · asked by db33 1

my husband is in usa and he divorced me can i still used his family name? how about my civil stat? single? married? im here in the phil.pls. help.

2006-08-15 17:00:54 · 8 answers · asked by glam 1

We married last October and he has done better, but the problem is also that he is 15 years younger and is immature for his age. I love him and have been with him 5 years. I was going through a divorce at the time and he was just there. He has a very strong personality and we argue and fight a whole lot. He has matured quite a bit, but I feel like my life is wasting away waiting for him to grow up and use moderation in drinking. I also have a drinking problem but have been using moderation. I enjoy drinking at parties and celebrations as well, but I hate it when he just sits and drinks all night by himself. Sometimes I will drink too just so I can hang out with him at his level. I have a teenager daughter who lives with us and she doesn't like his over indulging either. I have threatened divorce, but the problem is, I was a homemaker for 20 years and can't make enough money for me and my youngest daughter to survive. 1 option is the family busines bt it is 400 mls.awayfrom othr 5 kids.

2006-08-15 16:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY HUSBAND CHEATED ON ME . I THOUGHT I COULD JUST GET OVER IT BUT I CAN`T GET PASSED IT. WE R STILL TOGETHER AND I COULDN`T ASK FOR A BETTER HUSBAND NOW. BUT HE DID SOMTHING WHILE HAVING THIS AFFAIR THAT I CAN`T GET OVER.(NO BABY) HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS?

2006-08-15 16:56:00 · 6 answers · asked by LINDA C 1

2006-08-15 16:52:25 · 1 answers · asked by poody 1

he's satisfied one time at night one time in the morning

2006-08-15 16:49:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My life has been turned upside down and tossed around recently ( another divorce, my God this is incredible ). I've rolled with it and now that the dust has settled a bit I find myself looking at uncharted territory and I'm amazed that I'm scared. Is this a common reaction?

2006-08-15 16:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend thinks between 5K-8K!....i think it is way too much...we could both use the money on something else (house, car, travel) that would bring us a lot more....a ring is just a symbol....does paying between 1K-2.5K for a ring makes me a cheap bastard?

2006-08-15 16:38:16 · 14 answers · asked by justacuriousguy 1

i have been married for 9 months. my husband wants all the things his way. he decides what i wear, he decides how we docorate the house. he is even making what career i should choose. i am almost in depression. dont answer me to leave him. i am in diffrent country and totally dependent on him. i need some advice/tips or websites to follow some descipline to make him listen to me. thanks for your help.

2006-08-15 16:27:24 · 36 answers · asked by zica 2

i am truely in love but I feel like I wasnt cut out for this. i am a christian and do not beleive in divorce, unless absolutly nessasry. I feel like a failure. i would be absolutly misserable with out him.

2006-08-15 16:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by sillyone 2

Me and my wife has been married for 4 years and we have a nice little priencess. From last year i am studying outside USA. And on this christmas i will be back home in US. I found that my wife is doing cyber and having relationship with her x bf whom she dated before our marriage. this is very painful. what should I do? whenever i ask her about this on phone she says that she love me as she loved me before .. but her internet profile says something else. I am messed up .. In general, we had a nice marriage or i will say a perfect marriage ...no fighting, good sex, and a good and helthy life. but she ruined everything, may be the seperation from me had made us to do like this .. but if i can be loyal to her and dont do anything then why she cant? If i divorce her then is it wise according to Bible? Because she cheated on-line by doing cyber sex.

What u guys think ? Kindly help. Should i end this relationship? because i cant be her second choice. I just cant Please help

2006-08-15 16:16:31 · 25 answers · asked by nicedudelookin4u 1

I believe that there are many fathers who would be much better at raising a child, like the real caring type who doesn't drink, go out all the time with women, etc., than the mother who doesn't care, drinks a lot, has men stay over all the time, etc. I ask again-Do these women have to pay child support, and if not why?I know that many men are s.o.b.s and should pay support, but some men just don't have it. Wouldn't it be wonderful for women on disabilty who complain about men on disabilty not paying child support to see what it feels like after spending all of their money on bills and groceries,and household goods,and car repairs and house repairs and appliance repairs, car and other insurance and high medical bills and medicine that the insurance doesn't cover, and then only getting to see their child a few days a month and then having to pay extra for food and expenses for the child, and many other necessities. If they could only trade places for a year, would they still complain??

2006-08-15 15:54:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-15 15:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4

I met a guy whom I liked very much. We went on a few dates. He seemed to like me a lot when he was with me but always let a little too much time pass before he called me between dates which gave me the impression that he did not like me so much. Then I want away for two months, he did not contact me in any way so I gave up on him. But I never told him that I was disappointed he never called. I figured that he should have known I'd be disappointed since it's not like we are teenagers (we are both late twenties). I think he knew very well before I left that I liked him.

Now I heard that he is back with his ex-GF. He had left her because she was pressurizing him to get married. But she wanted to get back together and he accepted. My friends tell me I made a mistake and that I should have tried to be with him harder. What do you think? It is also possible he used me as a rebound. A man would've pursued if he really liked a woman, wouldn't he? Thanks a lot for reading!

2006-08-15 15:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys how do u keep your wife in chek

2006-08-15 15:48:10 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-15 15:43:33 · 17 answers · asked by Sadness need Happiness 1

I am asking for the most serious answers please. I lost my first marriage of 13 years, and now i am on the courthouse steps, so to speak, of losing this one, of 2 years. I know i do not have good communication skills. I fail to listen, and when i do, its like i seem to fail to HEAR what he is saying..i cant seem to get it right. I cannot carry a conversation with him, i run out of things to talk about, and when it comes to problems, i can solve everyone elses except my own. I am stubborn, bull headed, and so is he. We both want to be the boss of the relationship. And more than anything- i adore my husband, and love him very very much. Are there free self help sights about communication, is there anyone here who has been thru this? What did you do to better yourself? Thanks for your input.

2006-08-15 15:42:39 · 17 answers · asked by Elly 3

My husband and I have been married for 1 year. We have a 2 year old which we had before we were married. I have gained weight since my pregnancy and I have had a problem getting it off. It seems like he doesn't care anymore. We are in counseling which we just started. My husband wants more "family time", but everytime I try he is either too tired from work or is just lazy. So all I do when I get home from work is clean. he does nothing to help me , but cause messes for me to clean up. so tonight i asked him to go out and go disc golfing (something that he really enjoys) as a family just the three of us. and as soon as I was going to get him after work he called and said he was going with his friend discing, No sorry or inviting me with. So now we go through the phase of not talking to eachother because he hurt me and I told him that but it all ends up being "my fault". so he won't talk to me until I talk to him first. this is our relationship all the time. is it me? does he not love me

2006-08-15 15:42:34 · 20 answers · asked by smokey 1

With all this Q & A about husbands/boyfriends looking at porn and some women being okay with it while other women are hurt by it, I'm wondering...if you found out your wife/girlfriend was hiding her porn (for the same reasons you might've hidden it from her previously/presently), would that bother you?

Also, do you guys really want to watch porn with your wife/girlfriend? Isn't that kind of a personal thing? Would it feel like 2 of your worlds are colliding and wouldn't that be uncomfortable for you?

2006-08-15 15:38:46 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2

I was a faithful, giving , loving wife for 7 yrs. I was with my husband a total of 15 yrs. He is still trying to make a house wife out of the whore that he was cheating with. I don't understand it. She doesn't respect him or give a damn about him.Yet he is still chasing her. Is it that she is more like him than I was? Maybe some men out there can give me some perspective as to how a man can throw away something so good, for someone who is not worth a penny?

2006-08-15 15:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by mari 2