With all this Q & A about husbands/boyfriends looking at porn and some women being okay with it while other women are hurt by it, I'm wondering...if you found out your wife/girlfriend was hiding her porn (for the same reasons you might've hidden it from her previously/presently), would that bother you?
Also, do you guys really want to watch porn with your wife/girlfriend? Isn't that kind of a personal thing? Would it feel like 2 of your worlds are colliding and wouldn't that be uncomfortable for you?
2006-08-15 15:38:46 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess I'm asking this question assuming that guys watch porn with the sole intention of getting off without having to worry about someone else's needs. Or do you watch it sometimes without the intent of getting off, but just as entertainment? Somehow I didn't think so...
2006-08-15 15:53:21 · update #1
Most guys look at porn because the real thing is not available, or that the person we are with completely ignores the whole visual aspect altogether (won't wear lingere, likes the lights off, etc...) If our girlfriends/wives wanted to look at it with us then that would be awesome.
If the person who is withholding the sex is the one who is looking at the porn by themselves then it's a big problem, because it shows an intentional lack of intamacy. If it's the person who always wants sex but only gets it sometimes, then it's understandable.
2006-08-15 16:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 23:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay not a guy but let me say this. I look at porn in secret and in front of my husband. I don't mind discussing a woman's body with my husband (he wouldn't be thrilled with sharing porn if it were guys we were talking about!) He knows it and he knows I masturbate. He does to. We are honest with each other and during a busy week when schedules aren't meshing, we joke about who got off more that week. We have a few porn dvds and while I don't really care for the orgy style raw videos, my husband does and I have no problem adding it to our evening prior to foreplay (husbands idea, not mine). He is okay if I go buy videos I like, we'll watch those too.My husband loves the idea of having his yoowho sucked while watching a video, there is no collision involved. It's the best of both worlds.
2006-08-15 15:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lissa 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
When I'm having sex with my girlfriend I don't need to watch porn to start me up or anything. The only reason I watch porn is to masturbate when I'm alone. Now if I'm watching an R rated movie with her and there's a sex scene in it that gets me and/or her a little excited then that's a different story.
2006-08-15 15:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I watch porn with my fiance and he does not have to hide it around me but we don't have to hide it from each other, but when the children are up and snooping through things then we hide really well from the children. But why should you hide some thing that makes both of us in the mood for some good old love making
2006-08-15 15:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex in a marriage should be open, why should either partner have to hide watching porn, as long as they are having sex together? And why would it be uncomfortable to watch porn together, are you embarrased to let her know what turns you on and vice versa? My hubby and I have a great sex life and marraige. We both look at porn seperately and together, why not? I know he masterbates, and he knows that i do, somtimes the other is just not around.....but as far as having sex we only do that with eachother. We are open and understanding in this marriage and it has made for a great one!
2006-08-15 15:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would not be bother, it's harmless.
Sometimes i want to watch with my women and sometimes i dont. Some women are up tight about sex,, Asking a question like that you seem a little uptight.
2006-08-15 15:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nah, it wouldn't bother me at all. I am humble enough to say that, even though I may be well endowed, I am not a very handsome guy. It would not bother me at all if my wife was looking at nude men on the internet. Heck, I wouldn't blame her at all. Just as long as she brought her desires to bed with me, I could live with it. She thinks George Cloony is to die for...and yet it does not bother me either.
2006-08-15 15:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have no problem at all,actually we watched together when we were young,we enjoyed very much and had "real fun " after all.
But ! Those were the days ,our good old days .
2006-08-15 15:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by canada2006 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She wouldn't even have to hide it from me... I wouldn't be upset if she liked porn.
2006-08-15 16:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋