Marriage & Divorce - 15 August 2006

My wife and I will be together 6 years when our first child is born.

A lot of people have told me that we are crazy for waiting until we are together for 6 years before starting a family.

I think its smart. Some people are married and divorce with children after 6 years, so we are probably better off than most couples.

We are very stable, financially and emotionally after 6 years of togetherness.

We know each other so well and I think if we had a child any earlier we wouldn't be as close as we are now.

6 years isn’t the norm now a days, but I think it’s a good amount of time, don’t you think?

How long did you wait to have your child with your partner?

2006-08-15 11:11:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

sorry

2006-08-15 11:09:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

their social security number and get credit cards and stuff on it and run them into debt?

2006-08-15 11:06:35 · 3 answers · asked by Amangela 4

2006-08-15 11:06:01 · 8 answers · asked by 123321 1

Ive been dating a married man. From the start he told me: his marriage was a sham, it was for a green card. Its almost over and he will be divorcing soon." I did not belive him. I started to. He calls me 4 times a day. We go everywhere. Ive been to his house and after thoroughly checking for women items, and photos I have found none. His brother is his roomate. After a month of investigating I spent the night w/him. That morning I used his phone since I lost mine, I did not realize i did this but a call came in and I hit the answer button. His wife heard us. She came to his house. He let her in! I said I was a friend. She went biserk, he called the cops, she cut him! I left. He found me walking he apologzed over and over, said she was lying their marriage is fake, she is crazy, he hasnt slept with her in 9 months. Hes putting a restraining order, and he wants me. Not her. I told him take me home. He keeps calling and apologizing, he says he wants me to come back. I want 2 believe him.

2006-08-15 10:59:06 · 17 answers · asked by Romina 1

and said she would not do it anymore?

2006-08-15 10:56:35 · 39 answers · asked by Mercury5_7 3

2006-08-15 10:54:22 · 17 answers · asked by john_0502000 3

We are together now for 3 months and We were together before and he ended it to be with what I tought was a friedn, but that is a whole nother story, anyway I do not want to get hurt again and he has promised me it will not happen he is great with my kids and we have bought a car and a house together, but I am still so afraid that he will just up and leave and it is causing an issue with us. He tells me that he is commited to me and does not wnat anyone else but he does want to label us as girlfriend and boyfriend. Is this something that I should worry about??? he is even made plans for the furture with me and my kids by the way. Please guys give me insight to your mind, I am very confused

2006-08-15 10:53:34 · 4 answers · asked by redhairedindian 2

How many couples out there would love to have more sex with their partner, but your "in the mood" cycles are always on opposite schedules?

2006-08-15 10:43:26 · 7 answers · asked by kandekizzez 4

Do you still hit on a woman after she's told you she's married?Do you like to flirt with married women just to see if you can get with her and WHY?

2006-08-15 10:42:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My BF and I have been in a committed relationship for 6 yrs. He is going through depression and says he constantly worries about me. He can't tell me exactly why he worries. I think it is because he works mega hrs. and worries about what I do when he is away. I DO NOT cheat. But his ex wife did for 2 yrs before he found out and divorced her. I do not want to be judged by his ex. I realize he is in a vulnerable state right now. He told me he did not want a relationship, I made arrangements to leave but he begged me to stay. He has apologized and told me he loves me and is in love with me. I am still undecided about what to do. I do love him and I am understanding but I don't want to live in an emotionaly unstable state. since he has told me that he was blocking his feelings because of worry and anxiety he has been clinging and wanting sex almost every time we get the chance. Now he wants to spend all of his free time with me. What is going on?

2006-08-15 10:42:35 · 9 answers · asked by Len 3

myi fiance and i just split after being together 6 years!
now we are no longer friends even.
we know the same people and live ina very small town
moving out of town is not a option for me, but i did move out of the home. please help!

2006-08-15 10:40:50 · 20 answers · asked by SHEFOX 2

Are you married to a man with no children, but you have 2 or more from a previous relationship. If so, what was it like in the beginning for you? Did he accept the children right away, or did he have to get used to it?
Men whose dating or is married to a woman with children, but you don't have any, tell me your story as well. How did you learn to take on responsibility as step-daddy.

2006-08-15 10:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by me 1

Do you think you could handle it, give me the pro's/cons, and if you think it'll work?

2006-08-15 10:29:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

can anyone tell me do a lot of girls have trains run on them, either lke in high school or college or whatever? i just found out my girl had one run on her and loved it

2006-08-15 10:29:43 · 5 answers · asked by jenny h 1

From Ca area? Goes by ritchie rich, rich dog, rich? TCB

2006-08-15 10:29:15 · 3 answers · asked by that_girl 2

We have been together for 5 years. She is 23 and I am 25.

She told me about 6 months ago that she really wanted to start trying for a baby.

I told her that we can start trying to conceive next year because our house will be paid off then.

We will have $0 debt next year and I want to be 100% financially stable when she gets pregnant.

With no mortgage payment we will have $2400 a month for a baby, retirement, college savings, etc.

She agreed to wait, but I can tell she is upset.

She talks about babies a lot and I get the vibe that her feelings are hurt that we will be together for 6-7 years before she is even pregnant.

To make it worse, her friend just got pregnant by her boyfriend of a year.

What do I do to comfort her? We have a dog, so its not like I can give her something to practice with.

What can I do to get her mind off of a baby until next year?

I am going to give her a baby, its just not the right time now.

2006-08-15 10:28:55 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-15 10:19:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-15 10:18:36 · 24 answers · asked by bornagain 2

I was ovulatting 10 days ago and had unprotected sex with my husband. I was supposed to start my period today but no later than friday....is it to soon to take a pregnacy test?

2006-08-15 10:15:15 · 10 answers · asked by bryanna g 2

Are you married to a man with no children, but you have 2 or more from a previous relationship. If so, what was it like in the beginning for you? Did he accept the children right away, or did he have to get used to it?
Men whose dating or is married to a woman with children, but you don't have any, tell me your story as well. How did you learn to take on responsibility as step-daddy.

2006-08-15 10:12:48 · 3 answers · asked by me 1

ive been married 2 times.i have been thinking about my ex husband alot and i want him back but i am still with my current husband.sometimes i would just rather be alone and i have 3 kids to raise.i cheated on my ex so i dont tink he will have anything to do with me.i just feel depressed all the time.

2006-08-15 10:08:42 · 18 answers · asked by lld61378 1

does anybody else think Heather Mills knew exactly what she was doing, and saw the cash till rollling, long before she saw an engagement ring!!

2006-08-15 10:05:51 · 23 answers · asked by linda r 3

People say it's all downhill once your married...is that true? If so, how and why?

2006-08-15 10:01:55 · 53 answers · asked by Strawberry 3

Why is it so hard to get the divorce over with? I have been talking about divorce with my hubby. He knows I am leaving Sept. 1, and now he's making it worse. He goes from being mean about it, to crying the next minute and saying he doesn't want me to leave. It's really tearing me up. We have no kids, and I thought it wouldn't be this bad! I tried tellng him to leave now, but he says "the law says u can't make me leave", and he is right. I can't find an apartment or house for rent(the only ones I found were too far from work or they were in a bad neighborhood). I feel like giving in, and just staying with him cause it's easy. Oh what to do......

2006-08-15 10:01:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-15 10:00:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to file papers but really don't need a lawyer as it is uncontested and have been seperated for a long while. Does anyone know of free legal help to help me with these papers?? I live in San Marcos (San Diego county). Thanks for the help.

2006-08-15 09:59:02 · 4 answers · asked by tpurtygrl 5

Do you like to be the one in bondage or the dominate one.

2006-08-15 09:56:32 · 4 answers · asked by I love sushi 4

My wife has gained some weight since we first met. She complains that she looks fat, her clothes doesn't look good on her anymore, etc... I hate hearing her complain b/c I don't think she's fat at all, she weighs like 130. I tried to help her out by showing her some exercises she could do if she's really that worried about it but she hardly ever does them. I try to be really subtle when I give her advice as far as eating right and all that. Should I stop giving her advice since she doesn't seem to take it? I'm woried that if I don't give her any advice, she'll blow up and never stop complaining about how she wants to look.

2006-08-15 09:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by wtf 2

he has a son with the girlfriend he had before me. we had been on and off for 4 years and when we got back together the last time, his ex was pregnant and he did not tell me. after a month of being back together, i too got pregnant. he was 20 years old at the time and made a stupid mistake. not only did he not tell me about his ex, he signed over his parental rights. now that i know the truth, i have chosen to support him in this. the woman does'nt want my husband to be in her sons life, and i dont blame her. i dont know if i can live life knowing that he has a son we cant have a relationship with. i dont know what to do. am i being too nice by not giving him any s@#%? please help!!

2006-08-15 09:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous