Would you forgive your wife if she cheated?

Question

and said she would not do it anymore?

Answer 1

Spank her and forgive her.

Answer 2

Hi. Before taking any decision, please talk to your wife about it. Have an exhaustive, but openminded discussion. Were you in any responsible for this? If your mind is confused, and if she is apologising for the same and ready to come back, then she always belonged to you, forgive and forget and make a new start with her. However if your concious says a clear no, please do not hesitate to take a stand. Have a great day!

Answer 3

Well my wife well ex wife commited adultry and I have yet to forgiver her for her selfish actions. Now she wants our family to be one again. Her guilt is setting in, like all things it only last for a while. But to answer your question do not forgiver her. Once a good girl is gone,shes gone for ever..

Answer 4

It all depends on details a lot depends on how Strong your relationship is if its strong enough you can work through anything.

I've been through it i was married to my first wife for 7 years only to find that she had several affairs in the last yr and a half we were together we tried very hard to put that behind us but in hind site our marriage was dead long b4 the news of her affairs came to light but neither of us wanted to admit that.

yes you can forgive a spouse if communication and your love is strong enough and your will to stay together lasts you can over come anything

hope it helps good luck

Answer 5

There are different levels of cheating. If she has not been sleeping around, I would give a serious thought to forgiving her. If she has been sleeping with someone else, I would have to say no.

Answer 6

I would never forgive her and i would throw her to the curb. Why bother having them stick around when you're always asking yourself is she still cheating and etc? It's not worth the pain or trouble.

Answer 7

Before my husband and i was married i cheated on my husband. But he was able to forgive me because after i did it, i told him right after. I felt ashamed already for what i did. He loved me through all of it and it made us stronger and we are married now 7 years and together 10 to be exact and i have not even thought about breaking my vows as him too. We were young, But we love eachother more than ever. We don't keep secrets, and we talk. Maybe she won't do it nomore cause deep in her heart she knew it was wrong and she is willing to fix it and she has to learn to trust herself and her husband has to learn to trust her again. She has to earn his trust again.

Answer 8

No that is unacceptable, you made a vow when you got married all those "happy" times are in the past now. If someone cant move on from that playing around phase then they werent ready for a marriage in the first place.

Answer 9

It depends on how much you love her...forgive if you think you are ready to face the future with her on your side totally forgetting what she had done...otherwise no because there would be no peace in your house if you'll continue to confront her about it...

Answer 10

Yes i would but i would want to know the reason behind it People cheat when they aren't getting something that should exist in a relationship.

Answer 11

I always used to tell her I would, but after hearing her tell me the opposite 20+ times over the years, probably not. -yk

Update: If she confessed and was honestly repentent, then probably in time. It might take awhile. If I confronted her and she then confessed and was honestly repentent, then probably, but it would take longer. If I confronted her and she denied, denied, denied, then no. She's going to do it again, and I'm not going to take any chances with disease, illegitimate children, and all the other crap that comes from adultery.