Do you think you could handle it, give me the pro's/cons, and if you think it'll work?
2006-08-15 10:29:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well i have dated women with kids and yes i could handle it and you can handle it to on how much you love him cause there are his kids and you should love them like there are yours. Take care.
2006-08-15 10:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You make sure he has a job and pay for the kids' things...at least the majority of them. If he doesn't, then change the locks.
2) You've gotta be really patient w/ the kids cuz depending on their ages, they may not even see you as an authority figure, and if they're in your home, they are going to need to understand what you say goes.
3) Don't put up w/ any nonsense...stand your ground. Most women wouldn't even think of living w/ a man and his kids unless there's already been some commitment made. He's lucky that you're willing to take this all on...don't rub it in, but never let him forget it.
2006-08-15 17:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by L S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make the decision that you want the guy enough to be a step mom. Everyone is a package deal. Sometimes the package contains kids, an illness, humor, caring, money, no money. It's a package deal. Maybe you'll end up liking having the kids better than not having them.
Take it or leave it.
2006-08-15 17:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by troyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would be able to handle it, if they are not your kids, then there is no pros to this situation.
2006-08-15 17:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny it will be difficult but if you love each other then you can get through anything!!! They probably won't like the idea of you at first but if your ready for that then go for it!!!
2006-08-15 17:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by Groover_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make anything work if you try. Just remember, YOU will be doing most of the work.
2006-08-15 17:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you grow a bond with the kids it will work out
2006-08-15 17:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by faithlydon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. Fast.
2006-08-15 17:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by DipperJapan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget that its too many kids that arent even yours
2006-08-15 17:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TOO,YOU CRAZY.OR MAYBE YOU COULD BE A REDNECK?
2006-08-15 21:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋