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myi fiance and i just split after being together 6 years!
now we are no longer friends even.
we know the same people and live ina very small town
moving out of town is not a option for me, but i did move out of the home. please help!

2006-08-15 10:40:50 · 20 answers · asked by SHEFOX 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

20 answers

Take this opportunity to try new things, take some trips, stuff with your friends to get your mind off of it. Then, think back through the 6 years. Think about all the people you've met, and all the times you said to yourself "Man, I wish I didn't have a boyfriend". Hook up with old acquaintances, meet new ones. This is good. You'll have fun if you let yourself. Good Luck.

2006-08-15 10:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0 0

Keep busy this is time to get to know who you are again instead of worrying about someone else. The healing process after a break up is not easy . when you are feeling down go to the gym , Write poems or a journal go Shoping and hang out with your girls !!!!!!! And after a month you will feel better . Then you will notice that person was not to be with you in the first place .Someone better will enter your life !!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-15 10:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by SUNNYt123 1 · 0 0

It is very difficult to breakup with someone you have lived with for such a long time.It will be hard.Each day will be easier than the day before.Keep yourself busy.Find a hobby.You deserve better.Keep reminding yourself that when one door closes another will open and prince charming will be in your life again someday.I know its hard to accept but some things arent meant to be so that we can have even more better things in our lives.Keep your head up.Ive been where you are.One day when you are least expecting it the love of your life will be right in front of you.

2006-08-15 11:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0 0

Do all the things that you couldn't before the break up. Go out with your girlfriends, party, have a good time. Focus on you, your career and your happiness. This is a fresh start with experience to help you out. Don't let it take over you and how you are.

2006-08-15 10:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by BrownTown 5 · 0 0

It is not going to be easy to avoid him if it is a small town and you know the same people. However, talk to your friends and spend time with them away from him. After awhile people will stop talking and move about their business as usual.

2006-08-15 10:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0 0

Well it's not going to be easy moving on. Its going to take time step by step and day by day. Six years anint no short time. But there is someone out there that will talk to you and help you recover from what you are going threw. Just wait and you have to have patience

2006-08-15 10:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's going to be hard, but just focus on you and do what makes you happy. Be nice to him...he won't know what to do...as the saying goes "kill em wit kindness." Dont let him see that you are breaking down even if you are because he may use that to his advantage and keep you down. But i just basically say do you and dont worry about him cuz you will find someone else who is worthy! Break-ups are apart of life and we learn from them and move on.

2006-08-15 10:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by tha gurl 2 · 0 0

Dont date anyone!!!!!!! Stay single and just have fun, you need to make sure that you are over him totally, give it atleast 6 months to a year before you start seeing anyone else, just enjoy your single time, that way no one ends up being a rebound.

2006-08-15 10:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by dnmhbk 2 · 0 0

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2016-12-11 09:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

take a trip out of town and have a good time and maybe a 1 night stand it might help.

2006-08-15 10:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by tyramarie26 2 · 0 0

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