wont take them back. My brother finally confessed to his wife that he was having sex with her mom and is angry because she kicked him out of the house. He is also angry because i am still friends with her. My relationship with her has nothing to do with him. I knew her before he did. I don't talk bad about my brother I am just there for her she just lost her mom and husband and she needs a shoulder to cry on. How do I get my selfish brother to understand I am not taking sides in something he put me in the middle of. ( I caught them at my house before but I made him tell her). I love my brother but wrong is wrong.
2006-08-15 04:48:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whoa....this is a hard one. You shouldn't have forced him to tell though. He should have done that on his own will. He's grown, so he's going to do what he wants anyway. The only thing you can do is give your brother good advice about his wrongdoing, while at the same time being careful to stay out of it, so as not to be caught in the middle, and continue to be friends with the wife. You shouldn't be forced to choose sides, and I wouldn't. Just be careful.....
2006-08-15 12:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by ?~GotLove~? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for you.You have been put in a very bad position.I think you are doing the right thing.You cant fix anything and as for your brother he has the problem only he can fix it.You have no control over his thinking.Your brother and her mom broke a bond between the daughter and mom.The mother apparently has issues that she has to go after her daughters man.But it takes two its his fault as well as hers.I hope they can mend the fences but i doubt it.
2006-08-15 05:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by nanny2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is narssistic and blames everything on everyone else to make it right in his own mind. He is angry that he cannot convince others to think as he does. If he refuses to take responsibility for his actions, and acknowledge how his choices affect others, he will forever be unsuccessful in relationships. He is just mad because he knows he is wrong. Continue to do whatever you do, and let him stew in his own juices. He may someday realze that the world does not orbit him, cater to him, or owe him anything.
2006-08-15 05:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
(I caught them at my house before but I made him tell her). This is going to be hard to undo. As far as your brother is concerned (he could be viewing it this way) == > its your fault for making him tell her.
To answer your question directly from a male perspective, raging sex drive and strong appeal for variety.
But yes, this whole thing sounds really whacky. The wife, her mom. What hell kind of people are they?
2006-08-15 05:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Buzz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 07:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's just retarded..had sex with her mom?eww..your bro needs help..he has no room to complain..but his wife has every reason to..what a crappy mother.. shame on her..if i was the wife i wouldnt talk to either of them again
2006-08-15 04:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell your brother that she is your friend and you will be there for both of them. His problem is something HE created and he will have to deal with the repercussions.
2006-08-15 05:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yuk yuk yuk sounds all involved needs help
2006-08-15 05:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by squawwitoutamule 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well then ignore him.. let him say what he wants until he owns up to his mistake
2006-08-15 04:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋