The woman is getting a divorce and my boyfriend has been friends with both of them for a long time before we got together. He cheated on her for years.My boyfriend used to joke around and say she leave him and go out with my boyfriend. She told him since she is getting a divorce she would get him a chance if not for the fact we are together.I really do not like this woman even before this.He still talks to her and sometimes stops to see her.Even to the point of talking to her teenage son . He is not his parent and should not be part of this his parents should take care of this. Should I worry when he calls her or she calls him, or visits her. She has the mistakened idea we are friends.I do not want to have anything to do with her. My boyfriend and I have had arguments because of his visits and phone calls. I think she disrespected me by saying she would go out with him if not for the fact we have lived together fr two years. Should I worry something might happen on one of these visits?
2006-08-15 02:02:45 · 5 answers · asked by butterfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Your boyfriend should respect you and not be spending time with another woman for any reason especially if he knows it makes you uncomfotable. If he is seeing her and doing things that make you uncomfortable you should wonder why. Talk with him.
2006-08-15 02:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by winterstorm23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you jealous? sounds alot,well, a whole
lot like you have the ugly green monster!!!
Look,facts are,some people are playful,
especially with friends,and it looks as though
you might be possessive of your boyfriend?
Do you love him?,or are you using him just
because you feel you cannot find someone
else? I don't know,i am not there,but from
what you are describing,you seem to be the
problem! Did she just say it once?
I don't know any of you,but if all it was ,was
just playing as friends,and it wasn't behind you
it could be innocent!
if I am wrong,I do apologize,but it won't hurt
you to feel better about yourself and trust
that someone can love you and really mean it!!!
2006-08-15 09:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should worry. Something probably already has happend and both are playing you for the fool. She is probably giving you canned answers to make it look like nothing is going on but it really is. Give him the boot and let him be with her.
2006-08-15 09:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i would be worried.They have been friends along time and now shes divorced and now he is conviently talking to her all the time and stopping by her home.You need to find out whats going on and find out if thats what he wants.Temptation might take the best of him
2006-08-15 09:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES, she's all ready telling you that she would sleep with him who's to say that she did not sleep with him yet. They are probably with each other now, and that's there little secret.
2006-08-15 10:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by shonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋