iam muslum and i have been marryed for 7 years i got marryed at 16 my parents forced me to. i met this guy online and he lives right by my parents house he muslum like me. i live right now in syria iam planing on visting my parents next summer with my 3 kids . i want to meeet him so bad he is everthing i always wanted in a guy . but i could never tell him that iam marryed . my husben dont really care about me. i have feeling for him still . what should i do HELP ME
2006-08-15 01:48:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get you of your lonely marriage and get happy. Life is too short to be unhappy.
2006-08-15 01:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
mustang.Suzy is right you can't build a relationship if your not honest and you must be careful. I live in the states so I don't know what is considered appropriate in Syria. Although it's important for you to talk to your husband about being unhappy regardless of pursuing this relationship on-line. Marriages arranged or not are important and you do have 3 kids to think of. Regardless of what you decide to tell your husband you do need to be honest and tell this guy on-line that you are married. If he runs than the relationship with this guy was not what you thought.
If you do descide to meet this guy do it in a public place.
Although love can play tricks on us and test us I don't want you to deny yourself happiness but I do think that talking to your husband to resolve your unhappiness is the best choice. Don't through a way 7 years for something that may not be.
2006-08-15 02:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by J Greenhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when he sees the three kids he will get the idea you are married. Sound like the next question you will be asking after you see him and destroy your family will be for the "Divorce" side of this forum. Really bad idea - stepping out of marriage for some online person.
2006-08-15 01:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to be in a loveless marriage; however, keep in mind that the person you are trying to run too is a internet person. Sometimes they are not all that they appear to be. I dated one that I met on the internet for about a year, he was nothing at all like he portrayed himself, so be weary that people can be anyone they want to be on the computer. Time will tell!
2006-08-15 02:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear fa m
Am not a Muslim but am Arab from Jordan, now working in Saudi Arabia, any way i know this woman who has the same story as you do, and you know what she did, she got her freedom when she told her parents and brothers about how bad her husband is, now i know how hard for Muslims woman to be divorced but its the way and the only way, may you will say i have kids, its tuff but in the future they will thank you for that . about the other guy...
i guess you need to take it step by step
God bless
2006-08-15 02:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop making excuses to your marriage seem on the elderly who have been given married at ate sixteen or youthful and stayed married their total lives!! firstly if u r a bored housewife then get a activity. If u decide directly to bypass away your husband get the divorce before u initiate seeing somebody else think of of the impact it ought to have on the youngsters. Is it a foul marriage does he hit u or is he verbilly abusive to u? Or is it u r bored so chanced on somone online who can fill your head packed with **** and convince u that he's the only for u and then u bypass away your husband and take your infants faraway from him to a various place so as that they r no longer defend?and be with somebody u do no longer possibly comprehend and enable him be around your infants? To me appears like u have been given bored and u purely dont sense that your hubby will pay adequate interest to u properly i'd do away with the internet so u stop assembly poeple like that and get into counseling artwork on your self before u bounce into mattress with yet another guy. U cant say u r in love with this guy u have not met yet u would properly be in love with the stuff he's announcing yet u dont comprehend if he's a bull shitter or no longer. your infants would desire to come first. returned divorce first. think of approximately it u r no longer in love with that guy,u can't even tell him u r married does he even comprehend u have little ones? artwork on getting a training for your self be a sturdy place modle to your infants do no longer teach them it relatively is alright to cheat if u r no longer satisfied or that it is alright to speak to strangers on the internet and have confidence them would u like your newborn to get on the internet and meet somebody online and say they r gonna bypass meet someplace would u enable them to bypass?
2016-10-02 02:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by babbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same position and learnt the reality through the hard way. tell your online boyfriend everything. tell him about your husband, your kids, your unhappy marriage life. then tell him about your feelings for him.tell him that you are prepared to leave your husband and come to him with the kids. see how he reacts. also read my questions. you will see what the future is like.please contact me. i want to help you. my address is, atahsina@yahoo.com. i am a muslim mother of two.
2006-08-15 02:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very different reality from internet !! be careful!! a man tried to seduce me ,i fell 4 him in the beginnin but then cut him off!!!
i don't know if u can take a divorce , if yes do so!!and lyin to that new man is a very bad start !! the sooner u tell him the better!
2006-08-15 02:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by maria32greece 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful of anyone you meed on line and a relationship that start out as a lie won't go to far be honest.
2006-08-15 01:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by mustang.suzy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave to country so you can have freedom that you deserve. Women are not meant to be promised to a man. Won't they behead you if you get caught cheating with this man? Can you divorce your husband? Divorce would be the best solution.
2006-08-15 01:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i know i should say don't meet him, but what the hell go talk to him tell him how you feel, and trust everyone likes it when you tell them you're in love with them. so it will calm him down after you tell him. if worried about your parents, after you tell him invite him there and let them see how great he is and won't be upset if you leave your husband. i you can't do that i have nothing to say.
2006-08-15 01:58:19 · answer #11 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋