2006-08-15 02:12:57 · 37 answers · asked by Rinkals 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow. If you have to ask anonymous strangers this question, I would say probably not.
If you don't want to marry someone, you really shouldn't
2006-08-15 02:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the cow, if you can get the milk for free.
Wow, how sexist is that.
I'd say you should piss or get off the pot.
Have you talked to her about this. Does she even want to get married?
Alot of people are deciding to not get married, the whole institution of marriage puts a strain on a relationship, So you really need to talk to her. And if she wants to get married, you have deep inside, and ask yourself, do you want to grow old with this person, and if the answer is yes then marry her, if the answer is no you need to tell her that to.
2006-08-15 02:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Tex2027 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're both happy how you are, then stay as you are, if you both want to get married, then get married, I would've thought that discussion would've come up already if either of you wanted to get married though, me and my partner have been together for 3 years and discussed marriage in the first year.
2006-08-15 02:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mummy of 2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-15 02:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by mustang.suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u love her enough to be with her the rest of your life share your hopes and dreams with her and maybe a family? wake up to her every morning go through good and bad toegther? Is your relationship strong enough to go through arguements without the I'm leaving attitude everytime ya argue? If so then what u waiting for hop to it and just do it!!! Good luck
2006-08-15 03:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by hubbys2ndbest2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should Marry her cuz u have been goin out for 4y. But if I wuz u I would ask her parents first just 2 b polite
2006-08-15 02:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Poohbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no question why you'l not marry her for 4 yrs. living together and in love with her. Unless if you have second thoughts and you need to know the reason of that.
Then you decide.
2006-08-15 02:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess my question is why wouldn't you? Most people that live together before marriage don't end up getting married. So, you are doing very well! Go ahead ask her...why not?
2006-08-15 02:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're ok with getting married yeah you should as you said you love her. but in a way you are living the married life you know living with her it's just not official and not in papers for the court.
2006-08-15 02:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you feel that you are ready to carry on a life together and are willing to make sacrifices for the sakes of both your future's then go ahead. If not, then just wait for the right time to come, it doesn't necessarily have to be now. Lots of luck to both of you!
2006-08-15 02:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋