married for 12 years.no kids as i never wanted them because of strained relationship with my husband.he is 11 years elder to me.. very dominating and workholic.he says that he loves me a lot but i have never felt in so many years.i am in very confuse state of mind as what to do?my parents want me to be with him but i have no sharing with him.i am 30 now,live in delhi, india
2006-08-15 02:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by rani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
File for divorce. Your husband doesn't have to be ready, you do.
2006-08-15 02:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age has nothing to do with it my hubby is 12 years older then me and we have a beautiful child toegther. But if he does not make u happy anymore tell him that give him the chance to change if it don't work then leave. It don't matter what your family thinks it is how u feel that is important everyone deserves a chance in life to be happy and if leaving him is what will make u happy then do it but i u do love him but just cannot stand the way he is tell him how u feel and tell him u would like to go to counseling toegther and see if that will help him. And stop letting him dominate u let him know he is not gonna push u around anymore.
2006-08-15 03:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by hubbys2ndbest2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the one who wants the divorce why does it matter if he is ready for a divorce. If this is what you really want then go for it. Otherwise you will be in a relationship and not be happy. Think about what you really want for a change and not what he is ready for.
2006-08-15 03:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce. I know the very thought of it is very painful for an Indian wife. Get a good lawyer and go for it.
2006-08-15 02:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by MARS1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't been happy all these years you should get a divorce. The situation is not going to change and you will remain unhappy. Get strong and take that final step. You owe it to yourself to be happy. Good luck.
2006-08-15 06:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer. I don't know what the laws are in India, but why can't you just file for divorce? This is your life, don't waste it being unhappy!
2006-08-15 02:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by loshea65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he'll ever be ready, so you have to decide when to call it quits. Best to get out while you still have a chance to make a live with someone else.
2006-08-15 03:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ever to be happy and on your own you must become more confident in yourself....less relying on others...bring something into your relationships instead of allowing them to control your destiny...good luck.
2006-08-15 03:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a divorce...get it! This is about you, not him!
2006-08-15 03:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Navi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you CAN,........Leave him. You are an adult now. You don't have to listen to your parents. It's your life.
2006-08-15 05:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋