Marriage & Divorce - 14 August 2006

I am a laid back girl, i don't care if he checks out other women. But every time we go out or to the beach he takes my camera and takes pictures of other women, boobs, butts what ever. But he never grabs the camera and takes pictures of his wife. I am pretty hot, have nice boobs. In all my photo albums there are pictures of everyone but me. I am always behind the camera, but when he gets behind the camera I am never the object of affection!!!

2006-08-14 05:16:43 · 30 answers · asked by micah z 4

Ok my friends has been married for about ten or 11 years or something like that, has two kids with his wife, but she stoped sleeping with him, he keeps joking about not getting any so we're always tripping on him. But the ? is what would make her just stop heaving sex with him, its been forever too from what i hear, should they even be together, we know her very well and dont think she's cheating, so what can it be why wont she give him none....>???????

2006-08-14 05:09:51 · 13 answers · asked by wcenice 2

I've been happily married for 11 years to what I consider my soul mate. When we first met, we were both sexually adventurous and crazy as a dating couple; threesomes, swapping, kink, you name it, we did it. Then when we tied the knot and started a family, things settled down, which was fine. My wife's libido for sexual wildness disappeared, partly I assume because of the baby and a new chapter in our life. I didn't mind, because in truth, I too was a little burnt out by all of it, and also had changed a bit. I was enjoying growing my business and raising a family, and there was no time (literally) for anything but family and work.

About 2 years ago, I suggested to my wife that we get a babysitter and go to a popular Latin themed night club for dancing and drink without the kids. My wife loves to dance ménage and Salsa and I'm terrible at it. In our younger years, I never had an issue with her dancing with other guys, and this evening it was no different. She started dancing with a younger Latin guy and seemed to be having a great time. All of us were consuming a lot of liquor, and during one point I saw her dance partner grab her *** during the dance. She removed his hand and backed away. He made some apologetic gesture and they continued dancing again. After they were done she walked over to me, laughing that "he was getting a little out of control", in which I replied, "don't worry about it, he's young and horny and you're gorgeous, so what do you expect?" She looked back at me and admitted that was a hunk and that she was having a great time. I then blurted out that I was really getting turned on by watching her dance with him and that I thought it was hot that he as groping her. She grabbed me and gave me a long wet kiss and asked if I really didn't mind.

The next dance set, she was making out him, grinding, getting her *** groped, and I was almost cumming in my pants. By 1:30 am we were all trashed and in a drunken state, with her dance partner standing there with us, I asked her if she wanted to sleep with him, although I used a different expletive. The next thing I know, I was buying condoms at the 24 hr CVS, and then checking us into a Red Roof Inn. I sat in a corner and watched my wonderful and beautiful wife get thoroughly "you know what" for about an hour strait. I did not participate. I asked him to leave when they were through. I felt such an incredible charge and I felt renewed as a person, which seemed strange to me. Here my wife was with another guy, and I felt like a teenage again. My wife was pretty trashed, and passed out on the way home.

The next morning we talked about and my wife laughed it off, saying it was pretty much a blur. A week later she admitted that it wasn't that much of a blur and that she really enjoyed herself. We had great sex and would talk about it frequently while in bed.

Since then, she has taken a lover that she sees once or twice a month. Sometimes I'm present, sometimes I am not. Regardless, we both really get our rocks of by this lifestyle.

I do have moments of worry though, wondering if her sexual relationship will turn into anything more than sex. She promises no, and claims that it's strictly sexual. He's much younger (early 20s), ethnic (not that it matters) and she says that it's all about the bedroom; his youth, stamina and physique.

I do enjoy seeing and knowing my wife is having incredible sex with this guy. Am I crazy? Are we both crazy? LOL...

2006-08-14 05:08:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a female who has been married for 5 years. Many times I wish I could just run home and get it! Am I just oversexed? I also look at internet sex, which gets me hot.

2006-08-14 05:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-14 05:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24 years old and I have 2 beautiful little girls with a man who is 32. We have not kissed in 2 years and I dont feel like we are in love, I was so young when we met and so forth

2006-08-14 05:02:48 · 8 answers · asked by impressions 1

2006-08-14 04:58:51 · 19 answers · asked by chirsti 1

Watching my husband eat chicken turns me on. It's the way he cleans the bone that makes me wish I was the bone.

2006-08-14 04:57:20 · 13 answers · asked by Coco 5

I am curious about how you are treated as couple. I live in the south. I have been married for ten years and I don't notice peoples reactions anymore. But I am curious. If I offend anyone I apologiz. But I would really like to know your thoughts.

2006-08-14 04:51:23 · 5 answers · asked by Barnabas 1

Is it there no longer around

2006-08-14 04:49:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have decided to have a wedding ceremony, as we were only married by the court, civilly. We would like to have something pretty but not that big, because we already had a bigger party and etc... when we got married by the court. We do not know whether to plan it at my Mom's back yard, because she is having her nephew getting married there on September the 2nd,2006. I do not want to sound inapropriate with planning it there either, but if not, I do not know whether to plan it at a Comfort Inn, etc...Since we are planning to hopefully get married for like September the 23 or 30, 2006. I do not know if I would like to dress up again or not, I'm really undecided about that, but if I do then it will be a simple wedding dress, not too fancy. Our anniversary is September 4, for when we got married by court, that's why we would like to have it in Sept. and also, we have bought a new set of wedding rings and would like them blessed, because we have lost, or I should say, I lost.

2006-08-14 04:45:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give examples...

2006-08-14 04:45:57 · 7 answers · asked by Married Male 2

My dads fiance is horrible.... and my dad dosent see it but all of my family does ive let her have time to get to knoe me but shes only said three words to me she has a daughter and my dad treats her like his daughter and doesnt hang out with me And there getting married in a month shes 30 and hes 44 and at the shower she was talking smack about my sisters and she taking over my dad what should I do

PS. The last two husbands she has had had died mysteriously

2006-08-14 04:44:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I share everything with my husband even the stuff that I had before I met him. I kept journals througout many of my teenage years. Going through my storage yesterday I found them and at first my husband wanted me to throw them all out but decided to let me keep them and put them in our truck to bring home. I didn't want to read them right now or last night, but when he went to do laundry he decided to pick one up and start reading it. He called me crying and upset. He appologized and told me that he read one of my journals which made him extremely upset and that he doesn't know if he can handle being with me any more knowing my past and how I used to be before I met him. It doesn't bother me that he decided to read my journal like I said I share everything with him what bothers me is that it upset him so much that he told me that he pictures someone else shen we make love and that everytime he kisses me he pictures things that I have done with other men. What am I to do?

2006-08-14 04:40:10 · 4 answers · asked by babe112083 1

I've been living with my boyfriend for two years now. He just recently turned 25. He has constant anger issues. When he has them he is a outright ***, when he doesn't have them hes a gentlemen. It's one or the other.

It's come to the point where I feel threatned by them. It used to occur when he drank, but now it occurs normally which scares me alot. Here are some examples

Worst: He drives 90 with me in the car passing and cutting off other ppl and honking at them. I cant say anything cuz im scared.

Bad: He comes home upset and I know if I do say anything he will go off. Sometimes, he is upset around my family and I have to agree with him or I am worried they may find out how he really is.

Not so Bad: He gets upset during video games like a child would.

As you can see it's a constant thing. We don't have any money, we can afford theraphy. I love him alot and do realize how bad it is. What can we do to help this out? Will books help?

What have you experienced w/this?

2006-08-14 04:38:09 · 18 answers · asked by Poestalker 4

Here is the deal. My husband has a son (10 years old) and I have a son too (17 years old).Our 6 aniverssary was on friday, the same weekend he has to return his son to his ex(his son was with us for two month). We deside to go that weekend to epcot, for celebrate our anniverssary and to be with the kids. Well, when we where there my husband decide that he wants to sleep with his son (we have 3 beds!). I wasn't especting to have sex, but I felt very bad for this desition. And then in the park, he was all the time with his son, sitting with him in the restaurant, and letting me with my son, this felt wrong to me. I was especting to have fun, but I felt I was put aside. For the six years we have together he does this every time his son is around. Im I wrong to feel this way?

2006-08-14 04:36:13 · 18 answers · asked by None 2

I get sick of the way my man misbehaves. Bickering doesn't solve anything, and I am not one to withold sex. How do you deal and punish someone for doing something stupid.

EX. My boyfriend seems to think it is okay to drive wrecklessly with me in the car. I drive with him to work occasionally and for whatever reason he is always late. Today he drove 90 passing people. He was in such a bad mood I knew I couldnt say anything or he would take it out on me. He honked at someone and took stupid cuts that I knew wouldn't even get him there faster.

When your man lets his temper get to him, or your woman does something stupid how do you punish them? Communicaiton isn't always an answer. Is there something that you do that makes it clear wahts going on?

2006-08-14 04:32:45 · 12 answers · asked by Poestalker 4

my wife of ten years has told me that she has fallen out of love with me. we have four children and have always seemed happy, she has complained of not having a close female friend for some time, now she has found one and spends all her time with her friend. how do i win her back i love her very much and have told her so. she says she still loves me but more as a friend than a husband...has anyone else felt like this...can i win her back

2006-08-14 04:29:57 · 30 answers · asked by usgreenei 1

He's left me 3 other times. He always comes back saying he wants me forever, but continues this cycle. He has just left me again about 1 month ago. This time I'm asking for a divorce and he says he doesn't know if he wants one. IF he doesn't want to work things out why is he holding out on the divorce?

2006-08-14 04:27:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The father of my children cheated me on several occasions while working overseas. He regretted his acts and wanted to reconcile.

Given the choice, would you as the injured party want to know every details of what went on between them and reconcile OR would you just heck it and leave him.

Thanks to all in advance....

2006-08-14 04:26:34 · 16 answers · asked by DiL 3

what r some things that u can do like to have fun?
something romantic that just suprises ur husband when he comrs from work
it would be so good if u share ur expeiences

2006-08-14 04:18:54 · 24 answers · asked by its me 1

I think my answers are the best, why does everyone team up against me? why?!

2006-08-14 04:09:47 · 33 answers · asked by Jason Linde 1

I've recently separted from my wife for something I have done (won't take much to figure out what) but anyway I need her back and I for the first time I don't know what to do or where to start. Open to all suggestions. please help, lost in the city.

2006-08-14 04:03:29 · 12 answers · asked by matchbox 78 2

I was once a high society call girl. I quit and moved to another city got married and now have kids. My husband has no idea of this and would divorce me in a heartbeat if he ever knew. One of my old clients found me and he has pictures of him and I having sex. he has threatened to show them to my husband. If I don't meet him for and afternoon of sex. What should I do.

2006-08-14 04:03:26 · 25 answers · asked by Froggy_45 2

I am a former youth minister that lost my job defending allegations that my wife was cheating on me and using drugs. For the past two years she has never been home 7 nights in a row, and sometimes was gone 4 days a week, and when i begged her to come home, she wouldn't. She spent $200-$400 a week and her cell bills were outrageous. I went into massive debt trying to work things out and now im spent emotionally, financially, and mentally. Now that i finally put my foot down, and after being sepearated 4 weeks, she wants to come home and says she will change. I know what I think i have to do, but am concerned that maybe she really wants to change and be with me. She doesn't make much money, has nowhere to go, and clearly needs professional help. I want to help her, but she has to love herself. I basically know she cheated at least emotionally, and i think she was using drugs. My question is do i give it one more try on my terms? Should I just stick to my guns? Let me know what you think.

2006-08-14 04:02:49 · 35 answers · asked by confused male 1

I come from a disfunctional family. My parents and my wife do not have a good history. My wife always sees the worst side of my parents. My mom says that she is never coming again. My wife says she never wants to see my family again. What should I do?

2006-08-14 03:52:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before I met my husband I had many more sexual experiences than he did and being that I tell him everything he knows about them all. It bothers him so much infact that he feel that he should have the chance to have more sexual experiences while we are married. I try to tell him that's it's different now that we are married and that we weren't together and I didn't even know him when I was more promiscuous. But to him that doesn't matter he still feels that he should be able to get to have more experiences. Before we got married I agreed to having a 3 some which I'm still up for but so scared that our feelings will change toward eachother, especially mine. Of course due to my past I can not be with another man ever again, I have no desire to at all, but I just don't know if I am going to be able to handle seeing him or even knowing that he was inside of another woman while we are married. Any advise will be greatly appreciated.

2006-08-14 03:51:37 · 14 answers · asked by babe112083 1

My married lover keeps asking me to have his baby. He and his wife don't have children and I can't imagine why he would want to do such a thing. I really don't want children right now. Anybody got any ideas why?

2006-08-14 03:40:12 · 79 answers · asked by Tiredofbrainlessmorons 1

2006-08-14 03:37:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i wanted to get married. He said he wasn't ready. Well i started going out on dates and he did too. We still went out with each other from time to time . By May we had got back together and by june we were engaged we are gitting married next month. When we were on our break i sleep with someone. It only happen one time and i regreated it. He does not know the guy and he will never find out unless i tell him. Should i tell him or is it better left unsaid. We were on a break.

2006-08-14 03:33:40 · 15 answers · asked by prettygirl5 2