I am a laid back girl, i don't care if he checks out other women. But every time we go out or to the beach he takes my camera and takes pictures of other women, boobs, butts what ever. But he never grabs the camera and takes pictures of his wife. I am pretty hot, have nice boobs. In all my photo albums there are pictures of everyone but me. I am always behind the camera, but when he gets behind the camera I am never the object of affection!!!
2006-08-14 05:16:43 · 30 answers · asked by micah z 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think he has affection for these women, what he does have is the 'peeping Tom' instinct, the voyeurism - he likes to watch and look at women and probably when they don't know he's watching them. He feels it's alright to do this while you're around because a single man taking pictures would soon have a couple of front teeth missing. Next time, leave the camera at home. Another piece of advice, throw out all the photos of unknown women.
2006-08-14 05:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would stop being so laid back. I would tell him that it's bothering you. No man should do that. You are his wife and he should be wanting to show YOU off in those photo albums. Does he get mad when you look at other men? just take your camera and take pictures of other men and see if it bothers him. If it does and he says something about it, ask him how he feels. Have you told him this bothers you? does he care? or attempt to stop? I wish you luck hun, im kinda in the same situation.
2006-08-14 05:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by instilleddistress 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely be jealous honey. I would make him leave the camera at home. He is taking pictures of other women only God knows what he does with the pictures. Tell him that this has got to stop or your marriage is going to suffer big time. He is your husband you are his wife and the only woman he should be drooling over or taking pictures of. You desserve better than that. You desserve a devoted and trustworthy man. If he is taking pictures of other women provocatively then he is not devoted to you.
2006-08-14 05:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by rkb12584 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you allow him to. You should never have given him the impression that his disrespectful admiration of other women was okay with you. He is being a jerk. He knows it and you do too. Tell him that his behavior is offensive and hurtful. Then pose for him and tell him to take a snapshot of the woman who loves him and is still hot for him even when he is being a butthole. If the camera doesn't get pointed in your direction after that, you've got bigger problems than picture taking.
2006-08-14 05:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He knows what you have and are capable of doing but those pictures let his fantasies get him out of the realities of life. Men sometimes enjoy thoughts of what could have been more than what is because there are no disappointments in fantasies. Being taken for granted is too common in marriage. Make him work for what you give him and perhaps He will appreciate you more. Remember what comes easily is seldom valued. The hard to get is cherished. if you really want to get his attention have him get all the pictures out and discuss where the women are more or less endowed than you are and discuss which he likes the best. That will show his interest and guide you into getting your pictures taken.
2006-08-14 05:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Take a camera and start taking pictures of hott guys with their shirts oof and put them in the albums. Yes how he likes that. And start checking out guys in front of him.
2006-08-14 05:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is so rude! my ex did that before. i agree with person above--maybe you should hog the camera and take pictures of herself and other hot guys and ask him how he feels. better yet-ask other people to take pictures of you. get yourself a better bad *** camera and leave him the older one. hahaha
2006-08-14 09:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you better talk to him that sgood that your laid back but soulds your a little too laid back have a chat with him just be honest since your so laid back if your pretty calm im sure he wont be defensive he will prob be sorry as he prob never realised
2006-08-14 05:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by laura m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not need to take your photo, because you are in his heart and soul (B.S. hah). I think he is comfortable with you and sees you everyday, so you are in his album. He just like to add adventure to his album.
I like to see your photo to judge if you are hot as you say
2006-08-14 05:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him a taste of his own medicine bring you camera and take pictures of other hot men and see how he likes it and if he fuss explain to him how your have been feeling.
2006-08-14 08:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by seeking 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋