I am 24 years old and I have 2 beautiful little girls with a man who is 32. We have not kissed in 2 years and I dont feel like we are in love, I was so young when we met and so forth
2006-08-14 05:02:48 · 8 answers · asked by impressions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Usually feelings of passion come and go. People confuse this with Love. Passion can be rekindled. It just takes a little work. Love and caring about your spouse is more important. Work on the passion. Lots of good books out there. Try Relationship Rescue.
2006-08-14 05:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by shana_durkee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not even kissed in two years are you serious?even though the two of you have children it really sounds like you are sacrificing your happiness to keep your family together the question is,Is this ok with you and are you in a comfort zone why don't you communicate how you feel with your significant other and then you will see where you stand with eachother because you don't wanna start living like roomates going about a daily routine as if nothings wrong and we all know that kids are very smart and they tend to pick up on things alot faster these days hopefully you and sig.other can work things out but not just for the sake of the kids please dont do that because then no one will be happy wishing you well be blessed.
2006-08-14 12:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him! The romance in any marriage is going to wax and wane over the years, and that's okay, but what's stopping you from kissing him now? Do your lips not work? Do his not work? Are you worried about it being awkward? It might be, but if you really care for this guy (it sounds like you don't hate his guts) then that's how you get the romance back - you just do it. You go through the motions of being romantic, and eventually, it starts to become real.
Best wishes.
2006-08-14 12:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation. I fell out of love along time ago. I am in the process of legal seperation and the such. I have tried counseling and other approaches. I wish you all the luck. But staying together because of the kids is harder on them. Explain to them it is not their fault and you 2 need a break and you will stay in touch
2006-08-14 12:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by disgruntled_vet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, If the flame is out then the marriage is out. Sure you can deeply care about someone but if I didn't love my husband I wouldn't want to stay together. That would only cause massive problems.
2006-08-14 13:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay till your kids are grown up. If the thing is still loveless, divorce.
2006-08-18 03:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! not if ur not geting alone ,kids are better off with out both of yous 2 gether than fighting and no love!!! as long as you stay in touch with ur kids and see then everyday!!
2006-08-14 12:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by big&beutifull 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-08-14 12:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋