Ok my friends has been married for about ten or 11 years or something like that, has two kids with his wife, but she stoped sleeping with him, he keeps joking about not getting any so we're always tripping on him. But the ? is what would make her just stop heaving sex with him, its been forever too from what i hear, should they even be together, we know her very well and dont think she's cheating, so what can it be why wont she give him none....>???????
2006-08-14 05:09:51 · 13 answers · asked by wcenice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All the people answering she's tired, she has to raise the kids- need to come off it. The lady is obviously hiding something. Unless she is terminally ill there is no excuse for not giving your husband sex. Maybe this is her way of getting him to ask for a divorce. Or she is already getting hers while he is away. Whatever it is tell your friend he needs to wake up and smell the coffee - something is DEFINITELY going on with his wife and he should find out what it is.
2006-08-14 05:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by ariola2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is the same way. She says she just isn't interested in it anymore. She calls it doing the deed every Saturday night and she dreads it. I was thinking maybe she loves her husband but is not in love with him. I don't know but I feel sorry for the guy he's lucky to get it once a month. I hope I never lose my sex drive. It's very strong so I doubt it.
2006-08-14 05:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her hormones might be changing... After having kids alot of hormones no longer produce like they use too... So she just might seriously not be in the mood, If he really wants some... maybe he should try a little finess... I know if Im not in the mood and my husband kisses my neck or stuff like that... Im instantly in the mood regardless of how I felt prior to him doing that. So have him try a little harder. Good luck
2006-08-14 05:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times when you have been together that long and have children and other things in life to deal with you show small signs of depression and it can and will kill a sex drive however alot of medications like antidepressants (if you do not have the right one) will kill the sex drive i would suggest she go to a doctor.
2006-08-14 05:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue i personally have the sex drive of a male but if i was ur friend i would have a long talk about what is going on i mean u have to get to the bottom of things in order to get to the top of things right?
2006-08-14 05:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not giving her what she wants. She might be kind of mad at him too. So you say that you know her very well to think she's cheating, but you never know people change.
2006-08-14 05:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's tired. Tell him to try to spice it up. take her out, get some alone time and lots and lots of foreplay! Why don't you baby sit? Help them out a bit! good luck to your friend!
2006-08-14 05:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jess_i_am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspicious to me. I don't know what would make a women quit servicing her man, but if I were him I would most definatly find out.
2006-08-14 05:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are obviously issues, and your friend knows alot more about the situation then he's letting on to you.
2006-08-14 05:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares...be a buddy, take him to a strip club and have one of the girls look after him (on you....)... that's what friends are for.
2006-08-14 05:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋