I've recently separted from my wife for something I have done (won't take much to figure out what) but anyway I need her back and I for the first time I don't know what to do or where to start. Open to all suggestions. please help, lost in the city.
2006-08-14 04:03:29 · 12 answers · asked by matchbox 78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you committed the ulitmate sin in marriage, then leave her alone! When she gets over the hurt and if she wants you back she will tell you. In the meantime, keep it in your pants and prove to her that you will change. And mean it!
2006-08-14 04:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by justmenotu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see the grass isnt greener on the other side ? your wife is hurt right now giver her some time and her space to think clear on what SHE wants to do now been there done that if she really loves you she will work it out but some women cant get past the pain and it takes a long time not to mention she may want to jump and take you back but makes you want to wait and have sometime to think about what you did ,rather she wants to be your friend or your wife she will come around dont bother her for now let her call you when she is ready .
2006-08-14 11:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BFirst start apologizing and keep apologizing until she gets tired of u apologizing . then apologize for apologizing then send her flowers and start treating her like she was the last woman on the earth. I'm sorry some of this i got from the movie Eddie
but when you cheat you have to earn the respect that she lost and If she truly love you she will forgive you but it will take time you hurt her.
I wish you all the luck in the world
2006-08-14 11:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by the6ccat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, does she know what you've done. Thats key. If she does know, then you need to know if theres any chance for forgiveness, and if so, give her some time . If she has questions, like why, or how could you, then answer them truthfully. Maybe there were some factors missing in your marriage that you two need to resolve. This is the advice I gave my father once, and it worked for him. Hope you are able to work it out.
2006-08-14 11:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by bayouktty6969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly... she has to come to grips with what you did... he destroyed her trust and until she is able to forget you everything that you do will do nothing.... give her time and let her know that you are sorry for what you have done and that you are there for her.... if given the chance again... you better not f*$% up!!!
2006-08-14 11:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie Teacher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to hear it from you exactly why you did what you did and your sincere apology. If she knows you realize how screwed up what you did was then she can start to forgive you. If she really loves you she'll give you another chance.
2006-08-14 11:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to forgive you and swear that you are NEVER going to do that again. Keep trying until she BELIEVES YOU.
Don't give up.
Tell her what you told us, that you need her back, that YOU LOVE HER.
Keep trying and she "maybe" will forgive you. (But you have to be sincere about that).
Good luck
2006-08-14 11:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know your wife or how forgiving she is but personally I wouldn't ever be able to let it go.
2006-08-14 11:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is like me then do not call her! I can't stand it when some one cheats. I don't have a 3 strike rule. Mine is 1 strike your OUT!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-14 11:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is gone too, sorry man
2006-08-14 11:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jason Linde 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋