2006-08-14 04:58:51 · 19 answers · asked by chirsti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Spy on him! Check his phone records... if they arent printed on the cell phone bill... you can go to the cell phone provider and ask for a list of the calls.... call them. See who answers. If your gut is telling you that something is wrong and you personally have nothing to feel guilty about.... then Id say go with your gut and see whats up! Good luck
2006-08-14 05:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't...The only way to know is to either catch them in the act or hire a private investigator to track his every move. The worst thing you can do is snoop. If he catches you snooping, you are more likely to push him away because he is going to feel as if you don't trust him (which you don't since you are asking this question). Be an adult about it and ask him to talk to you candidly. Tell him what is making you feel as if he is unfaithful and wait for his response. You will know if he is telling the truth and then you can make your decision to stay or leave.
2006-08-14 12:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your husband or wife is saying "you can't proved it, you haven't caught me in the act" and you have all kinds of little indications including intution, you could hire a detective. Sorry for your situation.
2006-08-14 12:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by TxSup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he acting weird? does he seem distant? Is he staying out and not telling you where he is going to be? That may give you a clue
2006-08-14 12:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why you evaluate the kind of person he/she is prior to rushing into a marriage...
not saying you did...but would minimize or completely get rid of any chances to have to worry or post questions asking for ways in which you can find out.
2006-08-14 12:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Schizm 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unless you are a generally paranoid person, if you suspect him of cheating then there's probably a good reason why you would be suspicious.
2006-08-14 12:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him...check the creditcard bills, phone records, communicate with him, and if you feel bad about it and suspect something...make it be known that he is held accountible for his actions, and its on him....
2006-08-14 12:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is, you do not know if he is cheating on you or not unless you can prove it. It's not what you know or or feel or heard, it's what you can prove. Do not assume anything unless you see it.
2006-08-14 12:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A PI can get photos of them doing it. Hire one.
2006-08-14 12:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are many signs, for example his behaviour towards u and your relationship, when he talks on the phone u could listen, check his mobile etc...
2006-08-14 12:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋