Should i tell........... My boyfriend & I have been together for 2 and a half year. In febuary i moved out?

Question

because i wanted to get married. He said he wasn't ready. Well i started going out on dates and he did too. We still went out with each other from time to time . By May we had got back together and by june we were engaged we are gitting married next month. When we were on our break i sleep with someone. It only happen one time and i regreated it. He does not know the guy and he will never find out unless i tell him. Should i tell him or is it better left unsaid. We were on a break.

Answer 1

Don't tell him. It is no longer relevant, but telling it may make it VERY relevant.

Answer 2

Before me and my husband got married, we took breaks all the time. I had done the same thing and felt bad for it. I wasn't going to tell him, but the night before we married, I did. I didn't want to marry him with such a secret. I wanted him to know what I did so that if he did find out later, it wouldn't be a shock. I wanted him to know that I make mistakes. He was suppose to come clean with everything as well. He didn't. 6 months after we were married, his friend told me that he had been sleeping around. I asked him about it. When we were on our break, he admitts to sleeping with one girl, 2. At first he lied about it. So yes, I would tell him. It'll only hurts if he finds out later. You 2 love each other. There shouldn't be anything that you can't takl about. People make mistakes, there's nothing wrong with that. What if he's hiding the same secret?Would you want to know?

Answer 3

Has he told you what happened while you were on the break? Would you want to know if he had sex with someone else?

I personally wouldn't tell him because it's not important. Some guys tend to think the worst anyway, and he may have already assumed that you had sex with someone else. If he hasn't asked, he doesn't want to know.

I agree that he could just use this for future arguments. My boyfriend knows part of my past and he keeps bringing it up.

Answer 4

don't tell him..sumthings are better left unsaid n hidden under the covers as they can ruin ur relationship....how do u know if he has also slept with sumone...are u sure abt his being a virgin? because trust me if he gets to know abt it ur relationship will end that very moment, he wont even listen to u ne further..whether u slept once or twice...if he doesnt react that ways n accepts u then also this bitter past of urs can come infront of u netime again.

Answer 5

you dont want any body or anything to get in your why when you get married tell him .it is because of the sleeping around that he looked so good and you are getting married to him not the other guy .sex is like jerking off it happens it is fun but when it is over we get back to what needs to be done .

Answer 6

Don't tell him....he'll throw it back in your face when it can be hurtful to you...you were apart then and keep that out of your relationship.

Be sure you are clean of any sexually transmitted diseases and so is he....he maybe was with someone too....get a check up for both of you to be sure before starting a new relationship with him....

Answer 7

Its in the past. You could ruin the relationship if he's the jealous type. Forget it. He loves you enough to make sure he keeps you. Learn to forgive yourself for past mistakes and you wont have to have the need for him to forgive you.

Answer 8

tell him
you want to marry this guy and you will have a big secret hanging over you definatley tell

Answer 9

Please tell me that you were tested for HIV/AIDS and STDs before you got back with your bf? If not, you must tell him and allow him the chance to get tested and take care of himself.

Answer 10

plz dont take offense but if u love him honestly, you need to come clean. good luck