Marriage & Divorce - 14 August 2006

I was 18 and my wife was 19 when we got married. Now I am 23 and she is 24, but now i feel as if we are two different people. We both want different things out of life. Is this normal for couples who marry young?

2006-08-14 07:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

dont know where he is and i am not sure if he knows where i am. is it possible that he got divorce without me knowing? it has been 3 years since i had contact with him. should i file.?

2006-08-14 07:55:45 · 4 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 2

k so my dad (who has been cheating on my step mom for 2yrs now, and has just found out that she knows but hasn't confronted her about it yet) lost his cell phone so he asked to borrow my step-mom's, and one of her guy friends (who is married and has a family and absolutly nothing is going on with, but likes to joke around) sent my step-mom a text that said "I can't wait to tast you, it's been driving me crazy all day" so my dad tried to call this guy who then didn't answer his phone, then he saw that he missed a call and called back, and my dad answered the phone and the guy said, "oh sorry I must have the wrong #" so my dad said " no you don't this is *insert name here* but the guy hung up. so then my dad called my step mom, and accused her of cheating, and she explained to him that she wasn't and that she had introduced him to the guy before, and if she was cheating she wouldn't have given him her cell phone, and then he said "well this conversation is going no where, I will call

2006-08-14 07:51:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-14 07:47:45 · 13 answers · asked by Big Chris 1

Any happy - truly content - couples out there that can give us a clue? How long have you been happy? Were you always? How did you discover the secret of getting along with each other so well?

2006-08-14 07:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by NANCY K 6

2006-08-14 07:46:36 · 21 answers · asked by sara 3

er cream cake lettering off the top so it read "Happy irthday" The kids were laughing their butts off. Just a joke I say, my wife is still "deciding" if I should be punished. Am I in trouble? Would you punish me?

2006-08-14 07:40:56 · 50 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-14 07:39:13 · 28 answers · asked by mammaw 1

I've been married for sixteen years. My wife is turning into a real ***** and is not interested in sex anymore. I don't want a divorce at this point. Where can I find a nice girl to talk to, who will listen to my troubles without judging me, who will be the special friend I'm looking for?

2006-08-14 07:38:41 · 20 answers · asked by sputternick 1

i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years i just had his baby 3 months ago, and he has been living with me since our 6th month of dating. we've actually known each other for 5 years. what am i doing or what did i do wrong?

2006-08-14 07:36:16 · 17 answers · asked by LADY SONNIER 1

he has been away from me and his daughter. i don't know if i could trust him again.

2006-08-14 07:33:19 · 15 answers · asked by mommalyle 2

Have a date tonight for the first time in 12 years, very nervous, happy, wierded out. God, I'm not even that old, I can't believe it's been that long.

2006-08-14 07:29:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband still has an affair and he denies it but i keep finding stuff?
he is emotionally and physically abusive, and im six months pregnant, and his girlfriend sandra pazos knows it, i dont know if she instigates, i dont know what to do he dont live with me any more but he still show to the house,. can any of you help me or drop her a few words her email is spazos@gentexcorp.com. the police took report but havent done anything yet. and this hoar and him are still together, but he keeps coming back,i kiked him out . i cant control situation . i hate this woman and him it ruining my life and my little six year old is confused. she is just interfeering too much. i dont want this guy anymore but she needs to stop she knows im pregnant and that hes married ans she get away with it!!! he wont though. but she will i can only think of people droping off hate mail she cant be let off that easy. please.help

2006-08-14 07:28:23 · 21 answers · asked by Jackeline G 1

I'm guessing it's different from state to state, but in general who can legally "marry" a couple (not talking about gays, just regular marriage in general)? Judge? Pastor? Etc? What qualifications or credentials does the individual have to have?

2006-08-14 07:27:34 · 3 answers · asked by Matt 2

2006-08-14 07:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by sally c 1

The other night the girl and I slept together while he watched and the only reason I did it was because he wanted me to. Now I feel terrible and empty", and that I havent been true to myself. For the past 6 years all he has done is tormented me, manipulated me into what he wants and almost left me a few times, he even said a few months ago that he thought he was in love with the same girl I done those things with, then he saw how much pain I was in and said he couldnt believe he ever thought that he loved her and that he was sorry and loved me. It seems like no matter what I do he is never happy. I have done everything he has asked me to do in the past including another threesome. Im always trying to do these things because I feel "not good enough." and all he does is manipulate me into doing what he wants. I feel like he is being selfish. and that bringing her into a threesome is a terrible idea since he just three months ago told me he might love her. what do I do he has no respect

2006-08-14 07:26:01 · 18 answers · asked by hearts_bleed_dark 3

stuffed animals, and I'll call her "poopyhead" and stuff like that. Do you think she'll leave me for this?

2006-08-14 07:18:30 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

okay...my ex-husband and i went through a bitter nasty divorce 2 years ago. we are only still in contact because we have 2 kids. He hates me and is still extremely bitter. His mother passed away on friday, and I sent him a text msg offerring my sympathy (he wont accept my actual telephone calls. ) Anyway, my question is...is it okay for me to sendf flowers to the service, or since i am not part of the family anymore...just let it go...?

2006-08-14 07:09:20 · 20 answers · asked by shasta 5

2006-08-14 07:05:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-14 07:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by marriedman 1

2006-08-14 07:05:01 · 11 answers · asked by Jason Linde 1

You're swimming at a friend's house and you glance over and see her husband peeking between the blinds. Is this weird? Am I overreacting? I didn't say anything

2006-08-14 07:04:20 · 20 answers · asked by SSP24 1

I gave up on dating sites, most guys on there aren't looking for a long term relationship. I'm 32 years old with two kids, and it's hard to find someone.

2006-08-14 07:02:45 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

over for the Barbecue without the baloons. We were filling them up when the tank broke. We kind of blamed each other and had a fight. Have you ever fought over something when it's neither of your faults?

2006-08-14 06:56:27 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I always hear about women who find these really wealthy men who shower them with cars, fancy dinners, big homes, jewelry -- and I wonder if this is truly for real? Has anyone ever dated a guy like this? Does this exist?

I'm cute - not a supermodel by any means - but I can get by - and I've never come across such men. I've got a great husband but we are not rich -not even close. I feel rich in the heart, in love, but I'm just curious as to what the gals will say...fill me in...

2006-08-14 06:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 7

Here's the deal...I have a friend who has 3 kids and her husband's a JERK. You can barely even call him a father. He leaves her alone ALL OF THE TIME and leaves for various 'trips' with his buddies. Most of the time he leaves all weekend and he doesn't even tell her when he's leaving until he's walking out of the door. He won't even tell her where he's going but the worst part is that she doesn't even ask. I think he's cheating on her, but she seems blissfully ignorant and depressed. What irritates me the MOST is that she has this attitude like all husbands are good for nothing and CRITICIZES other guys when she is openly IGNORING HER OWN HUSBAND'S ANTICS. I don't feel it's my place to say anything, especially if she hasn't even asked my opinion, but I also can't stand listening to her discuss other people's relationships when her's is obviously HORRIBLE. It's like she's making her situation seem better by making everyone else's sound just as bad or worse...What should I do?

2006-08-14 06:54:13 · 14 answers · asked by Brea1243 3

2006-08-14 06:52:56 · 25 answers · asked by Jamie A 3

The best way to make this person to leave in pace

Thanks.
Mr Misteryo 21

2006-08-14 06:51:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he is sorry that he wants me to forgive him and let him make me fall in love with him again, all he asks is that I stop reminding him of his affair and stop asking questions about it. He says he wants to live the rest of his life with me and that he loves me and most of the time he shows it but how can I forget and stop nagging him about the affair. It all happened over a couple of months ago. How can I trust him again when I know he works with women all the time? The person he cheated with was a co-worker. Please tell me how can I let it go and stop thinking of this affair every hour of the day?

2006-08-14 06:50:17 · 26 answers · asked by veronica b 1

We have been together for 5 years. She is 23 and I am 25.

She told me about 6 months ago that she really wanted to start trying for a baby.

I told her that we can start trying to conceive next year because our house will be paid off then.

We will have $0 debt next year and I wan't to be 100% financially stable when she gets pregnant.

With no mortgage payment we will have $2400 a month for a baby, retirement, college savings, etc.

She agreed to wait, but I can tell she is upset.

She talks about babies a lot and I get the vibe that her feelings are hurt that we will be together for 6-7 years before she is even pregnant.

To make it worse, her friend just got pregnant by her boyfriend of a year.

What do I do to comfort her?

What can I do to get her mind off of a baby until next year?

I am going to give her a baby, its just not the right time now.

2006-08-14 06:50:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous