I've been married for sixteen years. My wife is turning into a real ***** and is not interested in sex anymore. I don't want a divorce at this point. Where can I find a nice girl to talk to, who will listen to my troubles without judging me, who will be the special friend I'm looking for?
2006-08-14 07:38:41 · 20 answers · asked by sputternick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your search is over. Here I am. =)
2006-08-14 07:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad lecturing but you did post this on a public site. You are walking a fine line. I think if you are unhappy and can't work things out, you should get a divorce. If you still love your wife and want to work it out, get some counseling. If you do meet someone here to converse with, I hope your intentions are pure and that you make a good friend. But there is also a risk of compounding your problem with your wife by getting the attention you need from a woman somewhere else, whether it be just emotional or if it becomes physical. I am not judging, its just food for thought.
2006-08-14 14:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by mildmanneredclarkkent64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A psychologist so you can find out your problems and if you don't want a divorce, maybe they will suggest marriage counseling not a nice girl.
Your wife is suppose to fulfill your needs not some girl so you can stay in a marriage your not happy with and involving someone else in your marital issues.
Again, if your not going to get a divorce than deal with your situation and don't expect someone else to pick up the slack and create or make more issues for your wife to ***** about. Good luck
2006-08-14 14:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see, you should have that in your wife. and if shes turning into a real *****...then you should tell her...it will get better if you..i mean telling someone else what is that gonna do? it sure wont make your marriage better. so you might as well talk to your wife and tell her whats on your mind...so you both can make it work. cause it takes 2 to tango. and if you speak your mind to some other girl...you might end up devorcing cause your wife might accuse you of cheating etc. it will only cause more trouble for your marriage. so my advice talk to YOUR WIFE.
2006-08-14 14:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by krissy_pod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't get there all by herself, nice of you to cop out of maturity there and blame her. I'm sure you've been a real picnic to live with for sixteen years! She doesn't deserve better! Whatever...divorce is your decision, someone will only be too happy to have her. She endured whatever...shows her strength and commitment, who wouldn't want that in a partner! Wake up!
2006-08-14 14:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to work things out with your wife? You have no chance of getting a better relationship with your wife by searching for another emotional partner. You say your not ready for a divorce...why not if you think it is hopeless? Get to your yellow pages and search for a marriage councelor to try and save a relationship that you already have.
2006-08-14 14:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you probably already have that nice girl, try talking to her. If you are just interested in someone being objective, not know ing either of you, Ill talk to you. Been married two times, life isnt easy, I am a good listener and friend.
Barb
2006-08-14 14:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnsassygal13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't talk to your wife how is talking to a so called nice girl going to be any easier? Try to talk to your wife if its worth it to stay with her then get the help you both need.
2006-08-14 14:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by jewl_8098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are reasons why your wife is changing. You can bring back that girl you loved in her. Try this neat little book. It's cheap and gets straight to the point. It really helped us. :)
http://www.ebookomatic.com/publish/authorinfo.asp?EbookId=1001
It gets to the root of the problems and offers solutions.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 00:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by hope03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can be cool. Just nun more.I can help you out and give u advice. try 2 spice up yaw's relationship. Have a surprise dinner for her when she cums home. Or you can do sum'n as simple as run her bath water with candles and some rose petals in the tub. Take my advice.
2006-08-14 14:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey Tink(er Bell) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get or a f u c k i n g divorce or go talk to a f u c k i n g...that's what i love about men, they'll be there for you for the better, but when the worse comes they look for someone else! when somsone cheats it just shows your true character: a coward!
2006-08-14 14:44:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋