I gave up on dating sites, most guys on there aren't looking for a long term relationship. I'm 32 years old with two kids, and it's hard to find someone.
2006-08-14 07:02:45 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand what you mean about having a hard time finding a good man. I'm currently going through a divorce and I have a 2 year old daughter. My husband walked out on us almost 3 months ago and I felt like I would never let myself get put in the position to get hurt again. But let me give you a piece of advice....the right person always seems to show up when you least expect it. Don't go looking for them..they will find you and when they do, it will be incredible because they will be accepting of your children and want you because to them you will be something special, as i'm sure you already are to several people! I've personally experienced this myself and yes, it does happen when you least expect! I hope my advice helps and good luck!
2006-08-14 07:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking and let a good man find you.
Stop looking because you got to be careful of what you ask for. Remember their will be a few sheep in Wolfe clothing playing off of your weakness.
A good man will accept your kids whether you have 10 kids if he truly and I say truly love and want to be with you.
Dating sites have its good and bad so beware of looking for love over a computer screen.
If it was meant to be, I feel patience will make you choose your mate carefully and love yourself first so you can take the time to see what your getting.
Would you buy a new pair of shoes without trying it on, I bet the answer is no so treat your relationships in the same manner.
Carefully screen your potential partners and don't fall for anybody because your looking.
2006-08-14 15:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though it's very controversial, I did meet my husband online. The great thing about it is that you get to know each other (assuming both people are being honest) before you have the awkward first dates. I met my husband in a chat room, we emailed each other then talked on the phone for a week. We then had our first date and by that time we were familiar enough that it wasn't awkward. In fact, it was the best date ever. We were married 18 months later and 6 years of marriage, we are still madly in love! I think the key is that we knew up front what we were looking for.
2006-08-14 14:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry it's not the answer what you want but you should not think about good or bad and you can't go out on the street to find a good person. you're gonna get a good person anytime like I got my first friend 3 days ago. It's called co-incident. So just stop looking around. sometimes somebody will knock the doors of your heart.
2006-08-14 14:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Willie Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong perspective. If you become the woman that a good man would want, then its easy. Can you contribute to a marriage what a good man needs? Work on yourself first, and when you feel you are the person that has the traits good man would recognize and appreciate, then he will find you.
Just have fun in the meantime.
2006-08-14 14:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there are any. sorry for telling you that but i am 35 and single, been single for 5 years. its hard to meet someone, don't get me wrong i do have a boyfriend but didn't you ask if there were any GOOD MEN.
2006-08-14 14:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
<==== Good man right here! 35 with two kids. Trust me. I know what you're going through.
2006-08-14 15:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try parents without partners, or the church, divorced clubs or social events. Good luck.. You will find someone when you least expect it.
2006-08-14 14:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best spot is the grocery store or deli-- see a guy looking confused-- be forward and ask if you can help---then invite him over for a good meal
2006-08-14 14:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by big man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you already found a couple of candidates-right here!
2006-08-18 13:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by ejg411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋