You're swimming at a friend's house and you glance over and see her husband peeking between the blinds. Is this weird? Am I overreacting? I didn't say anything
2006-08-14 07:04:20 · 20 answers · asked by SSP24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ummmm kinda his house his pool.. so ummmm if ur using his pool, he has every right to peek at whats going on in HIS pool, if u think its strange, then stop swimming in His pool lol.. id think it more strange if u were in ur pool and he was peeking into your yard, rather then his own pool lol..
2006-08-14 07:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not weird. I peek out of my blinds all the time if I hear something outside the house...were you the only one in the pool? That might make me uncomfortable, but he probably wasn't looking for perverted reasons. If he was, well, don't say anything until he does (or tries) something that is just obvious. Your friend could get defensive if you mention his mini-blind peeping.
2006-08-14 14:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first inclination is to say you are over reacting. Not knowing what type of guy he is makes it tough to judge. If he has done other questionable things in the past such as checking you out or making less than appropriate comments then maybe you are right.
2006-08-14 14:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Big Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be weird. It could also just be him admiring his wife if she was out there with you. I don't think its anything to get too upset about unless it constantly happens. Then I would be creeped out. Bottom line...its a clinical fact that a woman's gut instinct is 99%of the time right. If you have a weird feeling, go with it!! Trust yourself. Us women are smarter then we even give ourselves credit for!
2006-08-14 14:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by mcnees79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now thaaats kinda creepy
i wouldnt swim over there anymore
try going to a public pool with ur friend
2006-08-14 14:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by once_upon_a_dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is up, either he is trying to do something to surprise you or something that shouldn't be going on is.
Either way you need to talk to him. Maybe he is just watching you like he did before the two of you got together, but the only way you will know why he did what he did is to talk to him.
good luck
2006-08-14 14:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably finds you attractive and wanted to get a peek. i wouldn't say anything to your friend about it because that would start trouble. just enjoy it!!
2006-08-14 14:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. Big deal, when someone is in my back yard I might peek out to see whats goin on, doesn't mean I'm checking them out. Did he wink at you? Smile? Lick his lips? Are you THAT hot? Please, give it a rest...you'll lose a friendship for what? The poor guy looked out his window?
2006-08-14 14:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont say anything, just dont swim over there anymore.
2006-08-14 14:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not over reacting just make a note of it. next time if you see him again...shoot him a bird. if he up to no good then he slam blinds shut and wish world open up and suck him in. bet he dont tell his wife you shot him a bird. cause he would have to explain what the hell he doin.
2006-08-14 14:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋