Marriage & Divorce - 14 August 2006

2006-08-14 12:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

So we all know that breaking up is never a good time - so what did you do to move on and get over it?

2006-08-14 12:16:53 · 21 answers · asked by sapphire 3

I can talk to anyone except men I like- then I get pale, tongue tied and run from the room-- yes it makes dating very hard---there is a guy I like that has been coming around me at work for a year- trying to make himself available to talk-- I always ignore him or flee-- now he has given up-- ughhhh- I just panic when he is near--I have screwed this up-- how do I fix it without passing out first?

2006-08-14 12:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal to fall in love with someone like your father and 15 years older than you? What's your experiences? both good and bad ones

2006-08-14 12:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2

I have a much higher sex drive than my husband of five years (he’s 51, I’m 46). I have learned that I can’t initiate sex because he feels threatened or out of control or something like that. I end up feeling unwanted and rejected. How do I put this guy in the mood without him knowing that is what I am doing, so that he thinks it is his idea and gets back his animal instinct?

2006-08-14 12:05:51 · 18 answers · asked by Tammie R 2

how do you deal with your 15 yr old telling you they want to live with their father, who they just started having visitation with and the fathers all for it? how does a mother let go of their only 15 yr old and she feels like shes being betrayed all over again .it like relivng all those old memories of my ex leaving me and my son

2006-08-14 12:03:11 · 15 answers · asked by pkuchick 4

If it is, to what degree in a relationship is it acceptable? (we`re talking about a guy being jealous. Womens jealousy is harmless)

2006-08-14 12:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by ALittleLight 2

2006-08-14 11:57:21 · 12 answers · asked by so quite 1

That you were going to get married. I mean, after meeting them for the first time. This has happened to two close relatives of mine (girls) and I want to know how rare this is...

By the way, they are both married to those men who said that...

2006-08-14 11:54:32 · 5 answers · asked by Oohay L 1

It's my first wedding anniversary in Oct and I'm thinking I would like to get a gift for my wife from the traditional list. The first anniversary item is paper. Any ideas what I could buy that would fit the category of paper? I'm thinking a trip, as in paper plane tickets, but looking for ideas from others.

2006-08-14 11:50:10 · 14 answers · asked by obviously_you'renotagolfer 5

As in- a married man keeps a mistress, what does a married woman have?

2006-08-14 11:46:32 · 21 answers · asked by gbbiter 1

Married for 4yrs to HS sweethart--been with him for 10yrs. He is the only guy I've ever been with. One of our friends is an old bf of mine from my earlier years in HS. Recently, we hung out while my husband was working late. We got drunk and had some inappropriate conversations about what we would both like to do if I wasn't married. Nothing happened then, but I'm not sure it won't happen in the future. I love my husband, but I think I'm doing this because I never really experienced anyone else. Any advise???

2006-08-14 11:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

How much will it affect in a relationship having different culture?

2006-08-14 11:43:44 · 27 answers · asked by mary 1

My husband, now that the whole story of his affair is out, is telling me he is so sorry, loves me and only me and wants to do ANYTHING to make our marriage work. Before I knew about the affair, he kept saying he wanted to work it out but wasn't really trying. Truth is he'd already been having this "sexual" affair for 4 months. He said he has no feelings for her and doesn't know why he did it except the flirtation and all got the best of him. I just don't know if I can forgive him. If your spouse had an affair and confessed all, promised to change things and work it out, could you move past it, have you moved past it?

2006-08-14 11:43:31 · 32 answers · asked by buggoff 2

My ex husband and I divorced with a "common' agreement. With both of our incomes, he was suposed to pay $307 monthly. After a couple of months, I married again, my husband's a member of the Armed Forces, so we had to move from Florida to Virginia.
Now, my ex husband arguess he doesn't have to pay for child support because they don't spend time with him(they spent one month in Florida this Summer) and he has another child in the way.
I want him out of my life, but I don't think it's fear for my kids, or my husband that's providing for them now.
My ex calls me every day, several times, telling me not to go to child suport agancies, not to **** him up, he tells me if he goes to jail for no paying child support it's going to be my fault, he even said that he'll give up his parental right because he "can't handle child support'.
It makes me sick to my stomach,I wish he'll disapear..but I also know that my kids deserve the litte extra income he owes them.
Am I being selfish? unfair?

2006-08-14 11:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by pamela k 2

A man or woman should wait before they start dating, after they have gotten a divorce? One month? Six months? A year? It interests me, cause I have one friend that has been divorced for 6 months, and claims he isn't ready to date. He's 43 and has been married for a while. Then I have another friend, she's 24, and she has been divorced not even a month, and she's ready to start dating. She was in a worse marriage than he was. Her ex-husband use to beat her up and cheat on him.My male friend's "bad" marriage lasted a lot longer than her's. What are your thoughts?

2006-08-14 11:40:58 · 12 answers · asked by Fuzzy 2

2006-08-14 11:39:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

what grounds does a man seeking custody need to get primary custody for himself and supervised visitation for the mother.

I left my emotionally abusive spouse 3 months ago and now he is trying to get the kids. What should I expect for him to be trying to use as grounds and what defence do I have?

Also he is in the military. not sure what bearing that has on anything but I want to give as many details as possible

2006-08-14 11:32:58 · 9 answers · asked by Me 2

2006-08-14 11:30:59 · 37 answers · asked by chinadol931 2

My wife and I are seperated. she has kicked me out for my brother. For the first three weeks I was not allowed to see my kids, because I might be some kind of "threat". My family is my world. When I am away all I talk about just about is them. I love her and beleive that she has been horribley manipulated (while not innocent!). They collectively are the loves of my life outside of God of course.

2006-08-14 11:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Preacher in training. 2

Is that like cheating or should I let her do it with another girl?

2006-08-14 11:19:29 · 21 answers · asked by Tony 4

my husband was with me when i came to the supermarket & when he came in he was talking about how he met this girl outside and how they were talking about his car becuase she wanted to buy that car....he didnt shut up about the conversation & and am so suspicous now. what would you take this as, do you think he liked her? Is he going to cheat with her? How would you take this?

2006-08-14 11:16:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

before i met my wife i had lost 70 pounds i started lifting weights and got cut up but then we got married and ive let myself go.... but i want to go back to the way i was but my wife says she want me the way i am now. what should i do?

2006-08-14 11:14:19 · 10 answers · asked by themassage therapist 1

What does your man do to really get you in the mood? I'm trying to think of new ways to put a little pizzazz back in our physical relationship, and welcome any serious suggestions.

2006-08-14 11:12:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need help! My GF and i been 2gether for 4 yrs. when she is at work she cant talk to me even if i want to. when i am at work she wont understand that i cant talk longer either. she can tell me some time i am slefish, i am stupid or so when she is mad. if i am upset and say some thing like you r so selfish. she hung up the phone one me. i am sick. 103 fevor and i am trying to tell her. she ignoed me and asking me what she wants to have for dinner. Do you think she loves me? She always say she loved me alot. i am confused. please sensibale answer only please

2006-08-14 11:11:45 · 14 answers · asked by unknown 1

Still a lot of fights going on and the wife has said we're back to square one in our relationship. If I want it to progress forward I have to start all over.

How hard do you think I would get slapped if I shook her hand goodnight and said "Thank you for the very nice day?" LOL

Wellllll.......... isn't that starting back at square one?

2006-08-14 11:02:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

to do her pedicures. She was polite about it. I guess I'm not real good at it. At least she let me down easy. Do you have a hard time letting someone down easy? Or do you take it badly?

2006-08-14 10:59:36 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My husband has physical custody of his two children. Thier mom left them in 2001, got married, moved to AZ and had 4 more kids. My stepchildren feel abandoned by thier mother. Anway- its been 2 years since she last saw them, and about 3 months since has spoken to them. We have retained an attorney, and in the process of trying to get sole custody of the children. Thoughout the two years, she has attempted to see the kids... by threating to steal them, kill my husband and I, threats left on the machince- thus resulting to never visiting them for thier own protection. Many times, arrgements has been made where she has agreed, and not show up. Also, has not paid any child support she is court orderd to do.Long story short- she is asking for a supervised visitation... wherer would a supervised visitation take place? This woman has a lot of tricks up her sleeve- I am afraid that she may hurt the children physically & mentally.

2006-08-14 10:54:27 · 8 answers · asked by CuriousMama 1

I married my husband when I was skinny, and he was about 50 pounds overweight. Now, I'm 50 pounds overweight and he's 100 pounds overweight. But he's not happy with me because I've gained and thinks I should lose because "he didn't marry me fat..."

2006-08-14 10:51:19 · 32 answers · asked by Random 2

I need answers, i meet this man he claim to be a godly man, he says he loves me and he wants to marry me. He is still married after 3 years, he is not with the lady, they both have not filed for a divorce but he do not see her. We have moved together and he has not gave up his place yet. He the pastor right hand man but he do not want the pastor to know we live together, he have alot of women calling him, he claim that he cousel them but some woman tex him and said when are you coming to change your clothes for church. please help.

2006-08-14 10:47:56 · 65 answers · asked by girlmiddle 1