My wife and I are seperated. she has kicked me out for my brother. For the first three weeks I was not allowed to see my kids, because I might be some kind of "threat". My family is my world. When I am away all I talk about just about is them. I love her and beleive that she has been horribley manipulated (while not innocent!). They collectively are the loves of my life outside of God of course.
2006-08-14 11:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Preacher in training. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then why ask us, turn to GOD, prayer and fasting should solve all....But if she is easily manipulated...you got problems....
Whatever you do, be a father to your children....and a friend to your wife....
2006-08-14 11:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there. It's Nova. I'm a little late on answering here, but I'm glad you got atleast a small handful of answers. If I were you I'd maybe try posting this question again, maybe in more detail about what's going on between your wife and brother, and see what people have to say. I imagine about this time of day you should get even more responses.
2006-08-14 19:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might have a problem since your wife is already settled in with your brother. The only thing you can really do is talk to your wife and tell her that you want to give your marriage another try. You can tell her you want to get into marriage counseling and really take steps to repair your relationship. If she doesn't want to, then I suggest you get a very good attorney and start divorce proceedings.
2006-08-14 18:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for you. I know from personal experience how painful it is to have a spouse choose someone else and leave you dangling. Just remember that no one can change another persons mind. They have to do it themselves. If you are able to see your kids, concentrate your energy on helping them through this. Any mother worth anything will be touched by true selfless love for her children. If she can ignore that , than you deserve better.
2006-08-14 18:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by pippi_davis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, i am sorry. sounds like both ur brother and her are losers. You deserve more, i would fight for the kids and start your life over with them. someone is out there that will treat you how u deserve to be treated.
2006-08-14 18:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an attorney and visitation rights or custody and get it now.
You don't need her, her love for you isn't genuine.
2006-08-14 18:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She kicked you out for your brother?!?!?!
Boy oh boy oh boy how I don't miss daytime television.
2006-08-14 18:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Bobbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋