before i met my wife i had lost 70 pounds i started lifting weights and got cut up but then we got married and ive let myself go.... but i want to go back to the way i was but my wife says she want me the way i am now. what should i do?
2006-08-14 11:14:19 · 10 answers · asked by themassage therapist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your wife only says this as she is scared of losing you.my husband is v overweight but it doesht bother me even though im slim. sit your wife down and reassure her that its for her that your doing the fitness thing, even if its not. couldnt she join in the exersize too?
2006-08-14 11:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by The Way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you only live once...do what makes you happy!!! If you are happier then your wife should be suportive!!!!! If she isn't then you will have a hot bod and won't have a hard time finding someone more trusting in who you are!
2006-08-14 11:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is affarid that if you get back in shape she will have to also, and she is happy with the way she is or lazy. I would suggest you both become each other workout buddy and hit the gym together.
2006-08-14 11:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by spidermaniii_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to do it with you. It is fun when I can get my husband to work out with me. Do workouts that take two people and maybe she will like it. Becareful how you word it though. You don't want her to think that she is fat or something.
2006-08-14 11:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she wants you not cut.
maybe she's worried about your health
maybe she's worried that if you get in shape you'll pressure her to do the same
maybe she's worried about competition if you start looking healthier.
and finally decide on what you want to do for you.
2006-08-14 11:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by jude D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just being nice, trust me, she won't complain if you get totally buffed out.
2006-08-14 11:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is only one answer////do what you know makes you who you really are. in other words TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE
2006-08-14 11:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by l-cee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you want cuz may be she doesn't want you to look too good for other women?
2006-08-14 11:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by Yvette R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt want you to cause she is afraid that someone else will look at ya....
2006-08-14 11:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get healthy
2006-08-14 11:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋