My girlfriend is curious and wants to try it with a girl!!?

Question

Is that like cheating or should I let her do it with another girl?

Answer 1

This question is kind of awkward...

Usually, men would KILL to have a girlfriend that wants to have sex with another girl!! That is like their #1 fantasy!!

However, that doesn't seem to be the case with u...

Hmm, it's a hard question, because if she likes sex with this girl, then she may give up the male gender all together. Then again, it may be a unique, freaky way of spicing up ur sexual relationship.

I suggest that you let her experience it, but u be in the midst of it. Have a three-some...it'll put a twist on things for the both of u.

Answer 2

I say to each is their own, but for my part I would think that would be cheating. Even though she wants to try it with another female--what would be the difference in her trying it with another guy. Either way it she goes with it, it is cheating.The good thing about it is, she is be honest with you about it. But to me that is still cheating. She should be happy with just you! If my boyfriend told me that he wanted to try it with a guy, I would tell him go right ahead and you better enjoy it while you can cause I will not take you back.

Answer 3

I would definitely insist on watching. And I would set the ground rules ahead of time. Very specific ground rules, think of everything and anything that two girls could do to each other and if any of that bothers you; be sure to tell your girl what your limits are.

And if they get you involved, don't jump in and go crazy and try to be the director. Just be there when they "need" you.

God Bless America

Answer 4

depends how serious you are with her and if you are into that kind of thing. It could lead to problems in your relationship with jealousy and trust issues as well...however you could join in and it could be a great experience. Anytime i've heard of that happening though, it causes problems in the relationship. So it's really on what she wants, if you are joining, watching or not even there. if she just wants to screw around and have sex, yes that's cheating on you.

Answer 5

since you are asking this question, you might feel that it is o.k. now, but once the deed is done you cannot take it back, and you might feel like you have been cheated on and not like the feeling of knowing if you can trust her. it will always be with you whether u were there or not..some cuoples think this is sexy, but it seems to me you are not comfortable with it. if that is the case, you should tell her that it might hurt you and you are not comfortable with it. she should respect your emtions.

maybe you can try something else, like renting or buying x rated films where girls are doing it with eachother. you need to tell her how you really feel....don't be afraid of not pleasing her, it will meke her happy to know she can trust you with your thoughts and feelings.

Answer 6

I guess if you join in the fun, then she would just take it as a three some, and being adventurous. Some women like to keep their partners happy, and keeping their options open may make your relationship grow stronger. And if you join in, what do you have to lose, that would be two for the price of one.

Answer 7

If she wants to be with a girl when I don't see how that is any different to her wanting to be with another guy. Whatever the circumstances around it then decide for yourself.

Answer 8

i think it is cheating, no matter how you look at it. Yes it is every mans fantasy but, it is still sex with another person. feelings can occur, she could decide she prefers women, she could decide she is bi. think you need to talk to her and see what her intentions are and ask yourself if u can live with that

Answer 9

let her, only if you can join in. she has to be willing to let you be with the other girl and the other girl be with you (not intercourse but pretty much everything else).

Answer 10

if your there too then its not cheeting/now what if after she wants to bring another man in are you cool with that idea too?