What does your man do to really get you in the mood? I'm trying to think of new ways to put a little pizzazz back in our physical relationship, and welcome any serious suggestions.
2006-08-14 11:12:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make love to her mind all day long everyday.
Flowers occasionally, nice pats on her behind when you pass by,, a touch,, nothing that means we have to go to the bedroom now,, quick kisses,, kind remarks,, and soon things will sizzle when you hit the bed at night,, make sure your not leaving her worn out with all house duties too especially if you have kids or she works an outside job too.
2006-08-14 11:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by yeller 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How about geting rid of the stuff that takes the mood out of me.
1. Wash your own racing striped underwear and stinky socks.
2. Tell me, don't ask me what is for dinner tonight.
3. Let me have the joy of using a perfectly spotless bathroom, car, kitchen or closet full of clean clothes without having to pester (or even ask) you to do it I AM NOT YOUR MOMMY.
Just think back to what got her in the mood before the wedding.
2006-08-14 18:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run a bath for her right before her usual bedtime, add some bubbles, put some soft music on for her and just chill out with her while she bathes. Remind her that you love her very much and tell her that you want to make sweet love to her. Tell her that you're gonna take ur time with her and ur not gonna stop until she tells you too. Whisper sweet things in her ear while you caress her... Have fun.
2006-08-14 18:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold her close (if she lets you) and just look into her eyes. You have to be close enough where your breaths mingle. Stay in that position as long as you can before moving on. It's going to be tough. In fact, she may try to make the move first. Don't let her, just yet. This position allows your "auras" (sp?) to become intertwined.
I take no responsibility for what happens afterwards!! It's amazing!
2006-08-14 18:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Oohay L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it gets me in the mood when he rubbs my back and then he starts to kiss me on my neck..then keeps going down..oo yea that should get in the mood and bring some love back in the bedroom..dont froget the soft music in the background
2006-08-14 20:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by chat girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, for me, full body massage works every time. It totally relaxes me and takes me away from the days stresses so I can switch gears and become the woman he is waiting for. ( I have been married almost six years by the way)
2006-08-14 18:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me my husband does this thing were he will start massaging my back in bed. Then he takes and starts kissing me up and down my back....then he kisses a little lower...nothing perverted...just kisses. After that I'm really ready to go. It just does something to me...lol.
2006-08-14 18:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gives me a great massage starting with the back and then turns me over to my front and it gets better from there.
2006-08-14 18:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm always in the mood.... I have to work on him! Any suggestions?
2006-08-14 18:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Role play...find out a fantasy of hers and carry it out
2006-08-14 18:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by craftychic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋