I can talk to anyone except men I like- then I get pale, tongue tied and run from the room-- yes it makes dating very hard---there is a guy I like that has been coming around me at work for a year- trying to make himself available to talk-- I always ignore him or flee-- now he has given up-- ughhhh- I just panic when he is near--I have screwed this up-- how do I fix it without passing out first?
2006-08-14 12:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make a video of yourself stripping out of your clothes and give it to him... he'll forgive your awkwardness.
2006-08-14 12:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A note or a letter is a great idea. Sit down and write it all out and sneak it to him. This would be quite cute....letter are so rare now a days.
Otherwise, just suck it up. Just force yourself not to freak out....you can do it. Tell yourself that you have a lot to gain for spending time with him. It's better then sitting home and watching tv or such.
2006-08-14 12:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Completely normal. Two words...self confidence and courage. If you like them, don't act like you're ignoring them. You will send the opposite message you're intending to send. A simple smile and "good morning/evening" would suffice. Get over your shyness and be cool, calm and collected when a man that you're interested in approaches you so you don't end up repelling him instead of attracting him. Good luck!
2006-08-14 12:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(for those of you who have heard my spiel, stop reading. This
is canned...)
Dating is a skill: The only way you get better at it is to do it.
Ask people out that you like, but aren't salivating for, and
learn to interact with them. As you do so and people find
that you are appealing, you gain confidence.
As you gain confidence, you also become more appealing
and you can broaden the people who you ask out with
a higher probability of getting "yes" answers. Even if you
get "no"s, you now have enough perspective to not let
it alter how you interact with other people.
2006-08-14 12:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him,
he probably thinks you think you are too good for him. Just ask him out for a drink or something. Say HI -- if you are freaking out that he has given up, ask him out already!
2006-08-14 12:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Force youself to talk to him. You're just nervous. While you're at it, read The Chocolate Frog Coverup.
2006-08-14 12:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note explaining what was going on.
Be completely honest.
2006-08-14 12:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask hime for his emal address and set up a movie date with him that way you dont have to talk
2006-08-14 12:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter telling him that you like him but you are painfully shy. tell him in the letter everything that you would like to tell him at first and see if he responds to it
2006-08-14 13:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by tommyslili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋